Celebrating a new mom is a special moment, and not every parent-to-be wants a traditional baby shower. Whether she prefers something low-key, more personal, or simply different, there are plenty of ways to honor her and help her feel supported.
From pampering to practical help, these meaningful ideas can make her journey into motherhood feel even more loved and celebrated.
14 Ways To Celebrate a New Mom
Motherhood deserves to be celebrated in ways that feel personal, supportive, and meaningful. Here are thoughtful ideas that honor the mom-to-be on her terms.
1. Girls’ Night

Since it will be challenging for Mom to get away after the baby is born, you could consider planning a girls’ night with her friends before the baby arrives. This night doesn’t even have to involve going out — you could frame it as a sleepover instead! Get some of her favorite movies and snacks so she can relax and hang out with her girlfriends.
2. Baby Sprinkle
Consider a baby sprinkle if the new mom doesn’t want a full-blown baby shower! This type of celebration is like a mini baby shower, except it’s more low-key and can be a great idea for moms who already have kids. You can still host similar baby shower food and baby shower games for the sprinkle. Just make it easy and fun! It can also have a reduced guest list to alleviate some of the pressure.
3. Sip-and-See
This type of celebration typically takes place after the baby is born. A sip-and-see is more focused on seeing the baby, and the presents are primarily for the baby, rather than the mother. This one could be tricky because the timing needs to be right, as you want to ensure the new mom feels up to it. If she’s comfortable, you can plan this for after the birth!
Related: What Is a Sip and See and How to Host One
4. Nesting Party
If mom already has most of the baby items, consider having a nesting party! A nesting party is a gathering of close family and friends that helps the expecting mother prepare for the postpartum period. Instead of bringing baby clothes, toys, and baby gear, they can bring diapers, freezer meals, and cleaning supplies to help her set up a comfortable “nest.”
5. Blessingway
A Blessingway is a tradition inspired by Navajo ceremonies. It celebrates a woman’s passage into motherhood. Like traditional baby showers, Blessingways are usually just for women. You can include whatever the new mom wants. This celebration could mean pampering her, sharing birth stories, praying, giving her gifts, and any other ways she’d like to celebrate.
Related: What Is a Blessingway?
6. Co-Ed Shower
If the new mom wants to go a more nontraditional route but still have it similar to a baby shower, consider inviting the guys. A co-ed shower includes the important men and women in the mother-to-be’s life. You may need to tweak the baby shower games and baby shower theme, but this can be a fun way for everyone to celebrate the new baby!
7. Postpartum Party
A postpartum party is similar to a sip-and-see but focuses on the mom instead of the new baby. Once the new mom has had some time to recover, you can plan a get-together with her friends or an activity she misses. This party will help her change her scenery and take a break to feel like herself again after the baby arrives.
8. Babymoon

Another great way to celebrate a mom-to-be is by taking her on a babymoon. For this type of getaway, the parents-to-be can take some time away to enjoy themselves before the baby arrives. This trip could be a weekend in a hotel or something further away. It’s all up to what the parents want to do!
9. Sleep-A-Thon
It’s no secret that getting enough sleep after the baby arrives will be challenging, and the pregnant mom may already be having difficulty getting rest. A sleep-a-thon is a great way to help her rest and relax! This event could be a day or an entire weekend focused on rest and relaxation.
10. Meal Train
Instead of a sip-and-see, you could arrange for a meal train event. It will be challenging to cook with a new baby, so having family and friends bring meals to the new mom can help her get through those first few weeks. Bonus points for guests who bring freezer meals!
Related: Postpartum Freezer Meals You’ll Love
11. Decorate-the-Nursery Party
There are a lot of things a mom needs to do to get ready for a new baby. To help her out, and similar to a nesting party, you could invite guests over for some food and to paint the nursery with her. This party could also be geared toward stocking the nursery with items like diapers, bedding, and decorations. Just be sure to find out what her nursery theme is!
12. Baby Barbecue

If the mama-to-be isn’t into the traditional baby shower, take things outside with a Baby Barbecue. This is a great way to have a co-ed shower and take some of the focus off the mom-to-be. They’re also affordable since the host can grill the food, so the new mom doesn’t have to pay for a venue. Just set things up in the backyard!
13. Virtual Shower
Instead of hosting a large group for a shower, consider hosting a virtual baby shower. This type of gathering would allow the new mom to still visit with her friends and family without having to decorate or go anywhere.
Nina, Baby Chick’s co-founder, even shared virtual baby shower tips live on Houston’s KPRC Channel 2 during 2020, showing how meaningful and fun these gatherings can be for new moms.
14. A Day of Pampering
It will be a long time before Mama can return to the spa, so plan a spa day for her before the baby’s arrival. It will help her to relax and focus on herself. She can get a massage, a haircut, or a manicure and pedicure.
There are so many thoughtful ways to celebrate a new mom, and the best choice depends on what makes her feel most comfortable and supported. Ask what she truly wants and build from there. Whether it is rest, help at home, or time with loved ones, the most meaningful celebrations are the ones centered on her needs.