The Modern Day Doula

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The Modern Day Doula

Now that you know what a doula is, I’m curious to know what pops into your mind when you hear the word “doula”? What does that doula look like? What does that doula stand for? Let me guess. You’re more than likely thinking of someone like Ina May Gaskin with long braided pigtails only helping women give birth out at the Farm. Am I right? Why do I assume this? It’s from experience. I’ve had several people, when they first come into my office, walk in with wide eyes and look almost as if they are surprised when they first meet me and my team of doulas. I’ve even had several people comment how “normal” we are. Is the stereotype for doulas really that abnormal? For some reason people think we will be burning incense when they walk in and be banging on a drum or something.

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There’s nothing wrong with these things, obviously, but I want others to know that today’s doulas, the modern doulas, aren’t just hippies. We are educated, empathetic, caring, loving and hardworking women. We are nerds, girly girls, hippies, lesbians, straight women, mothers, not mothers, you name it. We are every woman.

Our role has also evolved over the years. Doulas help all types of women at all types of births and beyond. The modern doula believes that every woman deserves continuous support, a reliable voice, and a positive experience during birth and the transition with a newborn. So to clear up some of the stereotypes, I have come up with some points to shed light on the modern day doula:

1. We Support Every Birth and Every Parent

You may think that doulas are only for those that choose to have a midwife as their care provider. This is absolutely NOT true. Yes, we do support women with midwives, but birth doulas also work with women that have an OB and plan on giving birth at a hospital. As for me, 98% of my clients are those very women. And to be honest, in my opinion, these are the women that NEED the most support and an advocate by their side. So know that doulas don’t just support home births. We support hospital births, birth center births, medicated and unmedicated births. We ultimately want you to have the positive experience, whatever that looks like, that you want. The modern day doula provides their support to any woman who wants it.

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The modern day postpartum doula also doesn’t help just one type of parent or parenting style. We work with each family individually to help them decide their own parenting philosophies and empower them through their transition into parenthood. We are an objective source of information and support who can help both the mother and partner adjust to life with their new baby.

Overall, no matter how your birth unfolds, we support you. No matter how your postpartum period goes, we support you. No matter how you choose to parent, WE. SUPPORT. YOU.

2. We Receive Training and Continue Our Education

The modern day doula has received training and continues to educate herself to be the best doula that she can be. People may think that doulas have no formal training, which is not the case. There are different certification programs available for doulas to go to. The modern day doula has more than her own experience when working with expecting and new families. She attends these trainings, reads all the books, and works toward certification so that she can bring a wide breadth of knowledge to each birth and postpartum experience that she comes to.

It took me about 2 years to receive my birth doula and postpartum doula certifications through DONA International so it isn’t just a weekend course to complete. The modern day doula is a professional and she invests in her knowledge, education, and training.

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3. We Have All Types of Specialties and Experience

Not only does the modern day doula receive standard doula training through her certification organization, she continues her education to be able to help more families and has a plethora of experience, trainings, and skill-sets. She could become a bereavement doula helping families through the loss of a child, or an adoption doula supporting others through the process of adoption. She could become a placenta Encapsulator or a massage therapist. There are so many different specialties and trainings available for doulas. For example, I’ll share with you some of my training that I have received: Not only do I have a college degree and received my certification as a birth doula and postpartum doula through DONA, I also received my license in massage therapy specializing in prenatal/postnatal/and infant massage, I became a certified Hypnobabies Hypno-Doula, I’m also a certified prenatal fitness educator, and I am a childbirth educator, newborn care educator, and an infant massage instructor. It’s wonderful that there is such a wide variety of specialties because those trainings allow us to better support all types of clients.

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4.  This is a Business, Not a Hobby

The modern day doula believes in the value that she provides her clients and treats her time and her services as a business, not a hobby. There are still some doulas that treat their work as a hobby because they may have a full-time job or are busy raising a family. Since they still want to make an impact in the birthing world and support women, they do what they can which is wonderful. However, there are full-time doulas, like myself, that make this their career. Educating, empowering, and caring for women is their business and their livelihood. Again, doula care has evolved with all of the education and trainings that are available. It has become a true business for us to be able to making a living for ourselves by doing the things that we love most, which is educating and empowering families during this incredible time.

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5. Doulas Are Every Type of Woman of Every Age

There are all types of doulas out there which I think is a great thing because that allows you to find the right doula for YOU. I’m the type of girl that loves a great pair of high heels and lip gloss so I’m not your stereotypical doula, and I know that my personality and style may not be the right fit for every mother. That’s okay! You want to choose someone that makes you feel comfortable, that will put you at ease, and that will completely support you during your birthing and parenting decisions. That is a modern day doula. Whatever your birthing and parenting decisions are, your doula should be there to provide you with the information that you need to make the best decisions for you and your family. 

I am also here to tell you that doulas are every age and every ethnicity. There are doulas that are very young adults (18 years old), there are doulas that are grandmothers and great-grandmothers (in their 60’s and 70’s), and there are doulas every age in between. There is no stereotypical doula anymore. The modern day doula is every age, every race, every religion, and more.

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Overall, the role of a doula has changed throughout the decades yet it has stayed the same. I hope that I have opened people’s eyes about their perception on what a doula is today because doulas are not just there to support women that want natural births or home births. Doulas are women supporting women no matter what choices they make. We are there to lend a helping hand, a strong voice, a compassionate ear, a watchful eye, and a full heart. We are the modern day doula.

About the Author /

Nina is The Baby Chick® & CEO of Baby Chick®. She is a baby planner, birth doula, postpartum doula, childbirth educator, newborn care specialist, and a mother. With over eight years of experience, she has supported hundreds of families during their pregnancies, births, and postpartum journeys.

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Words written by @th3littlestavenger’s husband:⁠
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"Hayley asked me to write something about her postpartum body.⁠
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The soft pillowy skin around her belly button held my three best friends for 18 months.⁠
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My wife isn't perfect and that's what makes me love her.⁠
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It feels like our world as we knew it has flipped completely upside down the past few weeks. 🔁 With the Coronavirus pandemic, our everyday routines have been shaken up and, for many of us, not in a good way. 😫 Now that we are forced to figure out how to work from home AND take care of our children full-time, we are slowly discovering our new normals. 🤹‍♀️ This is the time, more than ever, to organize and streamline our lives and our homes. ❤️⁠
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Today on Chick Chat: The Baby Chick Podcast 🎙️, I'm chatting with Meggie Mangione, the CEO of @organizedlifedesign and 6 year accredited NAPO Professional Organizer. 💕 Clutter and chaos can really affect us as parents and employees (now working from home) so I thought it would be great to chat with Meggie to help us organize and streamline our lives as moms. On today's episode Meggie is sharing some great tips on how to conquer the clutter! 🙌 {Click 🔗 in bio to listen to the episode!}⁠
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And no, Scar, I wasn't *prepared* for this sh*t st And no, Scar, I wasn't *prepared* for this sh*t storm. 😒⁠
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"Don't get me wrong, I am very open and receptive "Don't get me wrong, I am very open and receptive to advice, I will never claim to know it all. But, sometimes a mama just needs to vent. It can be very exhausting as a mom when you open up about a challenge you're facing and then receive an overwhelming list of different things to do or try to 'fix it'. Especially when you've already tried it all or heard it all. Sometimes all a mama needs is an ear to listen and to know they aren't alone. Google can offer a list of possible solutions, Google definitely can't offer the nod of understanding that a friend can. ❤️"⁠
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And even now more than ever, we all are just trying to survive and do our best. Let's support one another as we all navigate these uncharted territories . . . together apart.⁠ ❤️
📷: @taylormade_mama
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👩‍🏫 Homeschooling 101: Setting Up a Learni 👩‍🏫 Homeschooling 101: Setting Up a Learning Space 🔡⁠
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A homeschooling mom is sharing her great tips on how to create a good learning environment for your child in your home. 🏡 She recommends that before you create a learning space, get to know HOW (visual, auditory, tactile, etc.) your child learns and what he or she is passionate about. You don't need to re-create school at home. Your child's learning space needs to be unique to how they best learn. This is a whole new kind of education. And the journey is truly an adventure. ❤️⁠
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Her tips are gold! 💰 {Click 🔗 in bio to read them!}⁠
Article by: Jennifer Hill Robenalt⁠
📷: @courtney.tracy⁠
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"Domesticity does not equal motherhood. 🙅‍♀ "Domesticity does not equal motherhood. 🙅‍♀️ I once sat in a class where teenage girls said they needed to learn how to cook, do laundry, and clean if they wanted to one day be good moms.

I stopped and told them that cooking, doing laundry, and cleaning are part of being an ADULT. Those are not the things that make up motherhood.

But I get where they got that conclusion.

You always hear women say they aren't good moms when they don't make homemade lunches, prepare cupcakes for the bake sale, show up to the doctor with kids who have brushed hair, or get the laundry put away in a decent time. 'I'm such a bad mom. I sent store-bought Valentines to school with my kid.' 'Mom fail. I didn't get the laundry done.' 'I'm a failure as a mom. I don't make homemade bread/cookies/whatever.' NO.

Your 'success' as a mother is not defined by domestic duties. Domestic duties are part of being an adult.

While your children do need to be changed and fed, that's not the summation of MOTHERHOOD. Anyone can change and feed children, including dads. You can hire someone to clean your house and feed your kids, and you'll still be a mom.

And if you weren't a mom, you'd still have to clean your house, cook food, and do laundry.

You're not a bad mom because you didn't do laundry in time. Let's stop combining domestic duties with motherhood, because they just aren't the same. Yes, moms do domestic things. And they raise children. These are two separate things.

Your housekeeping is not your motherhood, and you're giving away power when you combine the two and judge one against the other.

You are a good mom because you love your child, and you try to help them learn the things they need to learn. You worry about your kids, you spend time with them, you plan for their future, and so much more.

You might be terrible at domestic duties (I don't know) or you might be the best housekeeper in the world. But neither end of the spectrum--or anything in between--determines if you're a good mom or not.

Housekeeping is NOT motherhood."
Words & 📷: @pauseandconnect
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And especially now, EVERYTHING is on my mind and i And especially now, EVERYTHING is on my mind and it feels like the weight of the world is on my shoulders. Providing for my family, raising a healthy and well-rounded child, taking care of the house, the pets, nurturing my relationship with my partner. The weight is heavy, but at the same time, I am so grateful for what I have and to be a mom. ❤️⁠
📷: @babysleep_answers⁠
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FOR REAL! Check on your friends with toddlers. We FOR REAL! Check on your friends with toddlers. We are NOT okay. 🤪🙈
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How you feel at bedtime on what feels like day 382 How you feel at bedtime on what feels like day 382 of quarantine. 😑⚔️💀😂⁠
📷: @thedecentmother⁠
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God bless all of the mamas (expecting and beyond) God bless all of the mamas (expecting and beyond) out there! 🙏⁠ Our hearts are with you all during this time. 💕
📷: @thegingypants⁠
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DISCLAIMER: This is a USED expired PPE from @thegingypants basement. (She is an RN.) Please consider donating any UNUSED MASKS to your area hospitals who are in dire need. 💕
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My "coworker" can be such an a$$hole. 😒⁠ 📷 My "coworker" can be such an a$$hole. 😒⁠
📷: @macaroniandmomjeans⁠
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"30 hours of labor ended with an emergency C-secti "30 hours of labor ended with an emergency C-section... not what we planned but I learned pretty quickly that night that having a plan for bringing a human into the world is a fool's errand. All that mattered was that he got here safely. Having him in the middle of a global health crisis was also not in the baby prep books, but here we are. Holding him and healing my body in a maternity ward that's eerily quiet from us not being allowed visitors or family at this time, but strangely serene. All we hear are monitors beeping and the coos of our infant son. Maybe the sound of the 100th episode of The Office @ryanhurd and I have binged while in here. The admiration we have for the doctors, nurses + healthcare professionals that took care of Hayes & me during our stay cannot be measured in this post. They risked their health every day to make sure ours was okay. I can't think of anything more selfless than that. Ultimately, I can't thank every single mother enough for going through what you've gone through because I had NO idea how hard it could be, and I'm a measly 4 days in. The world is changing before our eyes and so am I. That's been a peaceful thing to cling to during these uncertain times. Thinking of you all. 🖤" - @marenmorris and her birth to her son Hayes Andrew Hurd 💕⁠
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Congratulations, @marenmorris! You are already an incredible mother. Don't dwell on the things that happened that didn't go as planned and that were out of your control. You are safe, you are well, and you have a son. You are a warrior. We are over the moon for you and your family.  Motherhood is an amazing thing. A hard thing. But oh so worth it. We can't wait to watch your motherhood journey. Love & health to you and your family. ❤️⁠
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It's gonna get crazy up in here.⁠ 🧺 (Another It's gonna get crazy up in here.⁠ 🧺 (Another day in the life of quarantine/ motherhood...)⁠
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🧘‍♀️ Exercises You Should Do Before Givin 🧘‍♀️ Exercises You Should Do Before Giving Birth⁠ 🤰
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Pregnancy and birth are physically taxing events, but they can also be empowering experiences. 💪 Exercising during pregnancy can help the birth process go more smoothly as well as offer other incredible benefits: lowered stress, better posture, less back pain, and less complicated postpartum recovery. 🙌 Best of all, you’ll feel more powerful and in control of how your body is changing and growing. 💗 While most exercise is great even for pregnant women, there are some exercises you really should do before giving birth. Here is what you should do and WHY you should do it. {Click 🔗 in bio to continue reading!}⁠
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