11 Ways to Avoid a C-Section

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11 Ways to Avoid a C-Section

Your baby’s due date is quickly approaching and you are probably now beginning to feel how real everything is. This is happening. YOU are going to have a baby. That means this baby has to come out. If you have started your research on birth and have maybe watched some Youtube videos on vaginal births and c-sections (which, be prepared if you do watch the videos), you may begin to realize that having a cesarean birth is major surgery. I do want to say, thank goodness for cesarean births because they have saved thousands of women and babies’ lives. However, it isn’t something that I would recommend electing to schedule without medical reasons. If it is your first choice to have a c-section, be sure to fully educate yourself on the procedure and the recovery. I want all of our readers to be well prepared. If a c-section is something that you want to avoid as much as possible, there are some things that you can do to lower your chances of having one. Here are my 11 ways to avoid a c-section.

1. Choose your doctor and hospital carefully.

I feel like many women think that their regular OB/GYN is automatically the person that should deliver their baby. This is not true. I know that you probably have a great relationship with your doctor, otherwise you wouldn’t be going to him/her, but you need to ask some tough questions to see if he/she is going to be able to support you with the birth experience that you want. You only get one time to give birth to your baby. And this experience can affect your future pregnancies and births. If your doctor isn’t giving you the answers you want to hear or is stalling with their answers, I recommend that you start looking for another doctor.

Be sure to ask your doctor what his/her c-section rate is so you know how often they perform them. This can give you an idea if a c-section is in your future. The national average of cesarean births is 31.9% (which is still a high number — that’s one out of three women), but I know of doctors that have much higher averages than that.

You also want to ask what his/her practice’s/call group’s c-section rate is. Your doctor might not even be the person at your birth, which happens a lot of the time, so make sure that you have an understanding on how the on-call doctors practice, what their c-section rate is, and what their philosophy is on birth.

Another question to ask is which hospitals they have privileges at. If you start asking people in the community (which I highly recommend asking doulas in your area since they have been to probably the majority, if not all, of the hospitals), you will quickly learn which hospitals you want to avoid. Some hospitals have better reputations than others and I will say, having a positive atmosphere and support team of care providers helps tremendously with the outcome of your birth.

2. Or choose a midwife and birth center.

Some people think that having a midwife might be weird or even scary, which is unfortunate. It is a safe and wonderful option. Midwives truly believe in your body and it’s ability to give birth. Midwives also have a much lower c-section rate than OBs — ranging around 3 to 4%. Unfortunately, doctors are a lot quicker to recommend a c-section even when there might be more alternatives that you could try. Midwives don’t think c-sections are necessary as often as doctors do but will call for one if truly needed.

If you do not feel comfortable having a home birth, you can choose to give birth at a birth center. Your environment there will be calm and peaceful as well. No matter where you choose, you can feel safe that your midwife will have all of the tools and medications to keep you and your baby safe. Talk to your local midwives and visit your local birth centers to learn more about these options.

3. Communicate with your care provider.

Whether you decide to move forward with an OB or a midwife as your care provider, you must communicate and ask questions during your prenatal visits. Let them know what your wishes are. The more that you communicate and talk about what you want, the sooner you will discover how they will assist you and how your birth may go by hearing their replies. I have seen several OBs and midwives practice very differently than what they led their patients to believe during their prenatal visits. I also recommend keeping a list of questions on your phone or a piece of paper so that you don’t forget those important questions. Otherwise, pregnancy brain can set in!

4. Hire a Doula.

Studies show that doulas lower the chances of c-sections by 40%. A doula is not a midwife. A doula is someone who is trained and experienced in childbirth who provides continuous physical, emotional, and informational support to the mother before, during, and just after childbirth. She’s there to ensure that your birth happens the way that you desire, making suggestions and advocating on your behalf in case you are too distracted or delirious to make these decisions yourself. She can help you determine when the right time is to get an epidural and when/how to change into different positions after you receive it. If you are wanting a natural birth, she can help you with position changes, massage, counter pressure, hydrotherapy, aromatherapy, coaching you and supporting you through each contraction, keeping your partner involved and comfortable, and so much more. A doula can also help you ask the right questions if your OB is suggesting a c-section. Hire a doula!

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5. Don’t get induced if possible. Let your labor start on its own.

While your doctor may say that an induction will not increase your chances of a c-section, I still would recommend avoiding being induced if possible. Only be induced if it is medically necessary. Most inductions use Pitocin—a synthetic form of oxytocin, the hormone that causes labor contractions. However, Pitocin causes contractions that are abnormally strong and painful, which usually has women asking for pain relief. This can cause a vicious cycle because pain medications typically disrupt the forces of labor meaning more Pitocin is needed. But unfortunately there is a limit that a doctor can give. If the uterus is pushed too hard, it will not relax enough between contractions to permit healthy circulation. This then can cause fetal distress, and a cesarean usually becomes necessary. This is known as the cascade of interventions. This is the chain of events that drives the cesarean epidemic. So again, if it is medically necessary, induction is a good option instead of resorting straight to a c-section. But unless an induction is medically necessary, I would suggest holding off.

6. Labor at home as long as you can.

Some women start feeling their contractions and immediately get excited and get ready to head to the hospital. The hospital may more than likely send you back home. They’ll ask you to come back when your water breaks and/or once your contractions are five minutes apart, each contraction is lasting one minute long or longer, and that this is a continuous pattern for one hour straight. (The 5-1-1 rule.) So stay at home. I promise you will be more comfortable there. At home, you can eat, drink, move around anyway that you would like, get in the tub, your shower, whatever you want! Once you are in the hospital, you will not have all of the options available to you.

Also, the longer you are at the hospital, the more medical interventions could be pushed on you. Interventions have the potential to slow down your labor and birth and pave the way for you to have a cesarean. It is shown that the more interventions that you have, the more likely you will have a c-section. So if you stay at home for the majority of your labor, you will lower your chances of having a c-section.

7. Have your water break naturally.

I can’t tell you how many times I have seen doctors walk into the labor and delivery room to see their patients and after a few minutes of chatting and doing a cervical exam, they say that they are going to break the mom’s water. Ask why they feel it’s necessary to break your water at this time. It might be a good option, but you might want more time. The doctor might say that it will help speed up your labor, BUT artificially rupturing our membranes has shown to not always be an effective way to speed labor. It only causes your contractions to be more painful, it can cause your baby’s heart rate to plummet since the water is no longer protecting them and surrounding them and their umbilical cord, and it increases your chances of infection. This is why it’s good to let baby break the water on his/her own unless it’s medically necessary, for example, they are unable to find the baby’s heart rate.

And another note, once your water is broken, the typical rule is you must have your baby within 24-hours (sometimes doctors will allow you to go past that) before you have to have a C-section. The reason for this is that they are trying to avoid infection, chorioamnionitis. So once your water is broken, you are on the clock!

8. Don’t get an epidural too soon.

If you decide to get an epidural too soon (before active labor), it can cause your labor to slow down and potentially stop. Your medical providers will then have to counteract that epidural medication with another medication called Pitocin, which is a synthetic form of oxytocin (the hormone that causes your contractions), which is the drug that they use for inductions. If you get an epidural too soon, even Pitocin sometimes won’t help. You want to make sure that you have established a good labor pattern of effective contractions and are in active labor before you decide to get an epidural. The longer that you wait to get an epidural, the lower your chances are for needing a C-section. Here is when you should get an epidural.

9. Ask for intermittent monitoring.

If you are wanting a drug-free birth, you can request to have intermittent monitoring. If you are going to be induced or have an epidural, you will have to be continuously monitored since they need to see how your baby is reacting to the drugs being given to you. A lot of doctors still want their patients to be continuously monitored even when women are wanting a drug-free birth. However, continuous monitoring prevents women from moving very much during labor, which in my opinion is vital to having a successful unmedicated birth. I mean you can move a few feet from the machine, but that’s about it. This means that women may be unable to change positions freely or use a bath or shower to help with comfort and control during labor. The medical staff can also at times become fixated on constantly getting a perfect reading from the monitor. Mind you, when you move, the baby moves so monitors need to be moved with the baby to pick up the heartbeat — this can be quite often. So, unfortunately, rather than focusing on the needs of the laboring woman, they are focusing on getting a constant reading of the heartbeat.

NOTE: Some hospitals have wireless and waterproof monitors. So if your doctor demands continuous monitoring, you can still have the option to walk around, move in different positions, and get in the tub with these monitors continuously on you.

As for intermittent monitoring, it is a wonderful option. Your care provider can still check to see how the baby is responding to labor, and it allows you to labor the way you want. If you want to move around, get in the water, you can! Also, monitors can be uncomfortable on your belly so to be able to take them off or have them use a Doppler instead is so much nicer!

10. Ask questions during your labor.

If your doctor is recommending a C-section, ask these questions first: 1) Is my baby okay; is there any danger at this point? 2) Am I okay? 3) If we are both okay, can we please wait? If an OB agrees to wait, it shows there is no urgency, just impatience. Sometimes a doctor may say, “Well, we can wait, but things will probably look the same in one to two hours, so why not do the C-section right now?” They might be right, but they might be wrong. You can continue trying and in the end know that you did everything that you could.

11. If you have already had a C-section in the past, find a medical provider and birth location that supports VBACs.

Not all doctors or hospitals will take or allow someone to have a VBAC (vaginal birth after cesarean). If you are wanting to have a VBAC, you want to have a doctor that has a high success rate of VBACs. They obviously will have privileges at a hospital that allows VBACs. So be sure to discuss this with your doctor if you decide to have another baby.

One last thing to keep in mind is that hospitals are in the business of babies. They want to get new patients in the beds and have a good turnover. This is a business for them, you know. So if you’re there and not progressing fast enough for their standards, it’s very likely they’ll make suggestions to speed things up, sometimes to benefit their bottom line, not to the benefit of the patient or child. Know that you have options. This is your baby’s birth and your body. Listen to your gut and do what you think is best for you and your baby.

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Nina is The Baby Chick® & CEO of Baby Chick®. She is a baby planner, birth doula, postpartum doula, childbirth educator, newborn care specialist, and a mother. With over eight years of experience, she has supported hundreds of families during their pregnancies, births, and postpartum journeys.

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3️⃣ Getting yourself and your child prepared:⁠
- Talk to your child about using the potty, maybe take them into the bathroom when you go and talk them through the process (e.g. wiping, flushing, and washing hands, etc.)⁠
- Practice pulling pants or shorts up and down.⁠
- Look on YouTube with your child at some potty training stories (e.g. 'I Want My Potty' and 'Pirate Pete's Potty')⁠
- Involve your child in choosing and buying everything you need - choosing character-themed underwear is usually very exciting!⁠
- Sit your child on the potty at every diaper change, first thing in the morning and just before bed to get them used to sitting on the toilet.⁠
- Teach your child the correct vocabulary or signs needed to communicate when they need to go potty.⁠
- Make sure you have plenty of spare clothes.⁠
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4️⃣ Let's get toilet trained:⁠
- Get your child to choose a pair of underwear and put them on.⁠
- Talk to them about using the toilet and communicating when they need to pee or poo. You can sit them on the toilet at this point if you wish.⁠
- Take your child to the toilet every 15/20 minutes. Say "let's go to the potty" rather than asking "do you want to go to the toilet" - if you ask, they are likely to say no! Also, look for signs like moving from side-to-side or hiding. These are normal signs that they might need to go potty.⁠
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