7 Tips for Dads During Labor and Delivery

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7 Tips for Dads During Labor and Delivery

Most dads really don’t know what labor and birth is going to be like, except for what they’ve seen in the movies and TV shows. Which they need to forget about! Having a baby within 15 to 30 minutes (we wish!) is unrealistic. I will say that labor can sometimes (very rarely) happen really quickly, but the majority of the time it doesn’t. Especially if this is her first baby. So when labor actually happens in real life, dads can feel overwhelmed and clueless as to what to do and how to best help and support their wife/partner when she needs help the most.

I’ve had several dads ask me, “what are the top things that I need to know to best support my wife during the birth of our baby?” So I’ve come up with a list of what I believe are the best ways to support your partner through what’s going to be the biggest experience of your life. Here are my 7 tips for dads to help you be the perfect birth partner.

1. Know What to Expect During Labor

One of the best ways to be a great support to your laboring partner is to know what to expect during labor. When you know what to expect, you both will feel a lot more empowered and knowledgeable about what’s going on. This is why I highly recommend that you prepare for your baby’s birth by going to a childbirth class with your partner. All hospitals and birth centers hold classes and–in most towns–there are several offsite classes that are offered in each community. Be sure to look into all of your options and talk to your partner about which class is best for the both of you since each type of class focuses on different topics and comfort techniques during labor. By taking a class or series of classes, you will learn what is normal and not normal and you will be able to help her every step of the way.

Note: I actually prefer and recommend non-hospital classes to my clients so that there aren’t any restrictions as to what the instructor can teach or how they can answer your questions. I’m not saying that hospital classes aren’t good classes. I just prefer that my clients learn all of their options that are available to them at each part of labor, about what to expect, and what is normal. I don’t want doctors demanding the instructor to leave out any information that could be helpful to you and your partner during her labor just because it’s an “inconvenience” to them.

2. Help Time Her Contractions

First, let me say, you don’t need to time her contractions when she first starts feeling them. Once you both recognize that they are getting closer together and she is saying that they are getting stronger, that’s a good time to start timing them to see how long they are and how far apart they are.

I always recommend that all of my clients download a “contraction timer” app on their phones. There are plenty of free ones that you can download. Getting an app makes timing and keeping track of your partner’s contractions so much easier. If you do not have a smart phone, make sure your watch has a readable second hand and you have a pen and paper to record them. You will time your partner’s contractions from the beginning of one contraction to the beginning of the next and count the frequency of each contraction in minutes.

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Dad Tip: If she is having regular intense contractions lasting 30 seconds or longer, your partner is probably in early labor. Make sure that she is getting enough rest during early labor so she has enough energy for active labor, transition, and pushing.

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3. Don’t Go to the Hospital Too Early

I know that it’s so exciting when your wife announces that she is having contractions, but don’t rush to the hospital the minute she says she’s in labor! If you do, more than likely her contractions aren’t frequent enough, strong enough, and her cervix probably hasn’t dilated enough to be admitted into labor and delivery. That means they will turn you both away so you will have to go back home.

To save yourself from making the trip several times, try to not watch the clock and help your partner take her mind off of the contractions. Again, you do want to make sure that she is getting plenty of rest so that she has energy for the rest of labor and pushing, but you can mix it with some activities. You can take a walk, go to the mall or a museum, watch a movie, bake some cookies (your nurses will love that if you bring them some!), whatever it is that she will enjoy and not get exhausted from, you should do that to take her mind off of labor. Home is a much more comfortable place to be in anyways when she’s in labor. At home, she can eat, drink, walk around freely without being hooked up to an IV or monitors, and she can grab a nap in her own bed. And so can you!

Remember, as a general rule, if the contractions are five minutes apart or closer, last one minute or longer, and continue in that pattern for at least an hour, you can make your way to go the hospital.

If her labor starts at night, help her get back to sleep for a few hours. Try rubbing her lower back and/or put a warm compress/heating pad on her lower back to relieve some of the pain.

If her water breaks first, here are a list of questions that you need to ask her:

  • “When your water broke, was it a gush of fluid or just a trickle?”
    • This will let you know if it was a high tear (trickle of water) or a low tear (big gush).
    • Note: Water will continue to come out the entire time until baby is born so don’t worry about it still leaking.
  • “Is the fluid clear or is there is a color to it?”
    • If there it is a yellow, brown, or greenish color in the water, then it means that there is meconium (baby’s first poop) in the water and it could mean that your baby is in distress since it’s already pooped inside.
  • “Does it have a distinct foul smell?”
    • Not that the water/amniotic fluid is odorless, but it shouldn’t smell completely foul. If there is a very distinct foul smell, it could be an infection.
  • “Do you feel the baby still moving?”
    • This is the MOST important question. If the water broke and there was a big gush, the umbilical cord could have slipped through the cervix (cord prolapse) and cut off the oxygen and circulation to your baby. If she does not feel the baby move, have her drink some juice and lay on her side. Wait ten-minutes and if she still does not feel the baby move after that, have her get on her knees, put her head down, and stick her butt in the air to get baby off of the cord and call 9-1-1.
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If the color is clear, there is no distinct smell, and she can feel baby move, you have up to 12 hours to get to the hospital. So if she is not feeling any contractions after her water broke, have her get up, go for a walk, sit on an exercise/birthing ball, do nipple stimulation, press on acupressure points, etc. to help contractions come. Because if you go to the hospital and there are no contractions, but her water is broken, they will not let you go back home and she will be induced. This will then double her chances of having a c-section if she is a first time mother.

4. Be an Active Participant

During early labor, remind your wife to stay hydrated and drink plenty of liquids. Pour her a glass of water, gatorade or pedialyte (even better), or herbal tea to ward off dehydration. Make sure she doesn’t eat anything too heavy or acidic because that can cause her to vomit during her labor. Offer her light things like fruit, a bagel, trail mix, yogurt, broth, a protein shake, or anything bland. She will not get anything to eat at the hospital (maybe a sugar-free popsicle) while she’s in labor so she needs to have something for energy.

At the hospital or birth center there will be a lot of experienced people around to help you, but you will be your partner’s most important support. So be there for her. Some things that you can do to help her are:

  • hold her hand
  • help her focus on slowing down her breathing
  • massage her
  • do counter pressure on her hips and/or sacrum
  • get the room the right temperature for her
  • dim the lights to calm the atmosphere
  • helping her change positions at least every hour
  • remind her to use the restroom every hour so her bladder doesn’t hold up baby’s head
  • walk with her through the halls
  • get her ice chips
  • get a wet, cold wash cloth and wipe her forehead and brow to cool her down
  • coach her through each contraction and have her relax all of her muscles
  • take pictures or video to remember this incredible moment — you will only have this moment once with this baby
  • get a hot or cold pack to relieve pain in her lower abdomen and lower back
  • keep track of the music that is playing so she can stay relaxed (if she wants music)
  • tell her that she is doing an amazing job and that you are so proud of her
  • write down when things happened and when funny things were said so that you have a record and can remember special moments that happened on this big day
  • if she has an epidural: help her rotate from her left side to her right side and sitting up every 30 minutes to an hour and keep her pelvis open (the running man position)

Basically, do whatever she needs when she asks you to do something. If she gets frustrated with you, don’t take it personally. She is having a hard time and needs your support.

5. Know What She Wants and Be Her Advocate

After you both have taken a childbirth class, talk to your partner about what she does and doesn’t want during her labor and birth of the baby. This is essentially discussing your birth plan. If you decide not to hire a doula to help you during this time, YOU are the one who needs to take charge and let the doctor, midwife or nurse know what she wants or needs in each moment. To be able to do that, communication during her pregnancy is key so you know what she wants.

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The doctor or midwife and nurses are there to primarily make sure your partner and baby are healthy and doing well during labor and birth. But you have a big role in helping your partner get comfortable and in communicating her wishes. Sometimes your care provider will recommend something that isn’t 100% necessary so it’s up to you to know what your partner wants so that you can clearly advocate for her and your wishes.

If your partner and you have written a birth plan, make sure you bring it with you to the hospital so that you can share it with your nurses and the doctor on-call. That way they can know your wishes and you won’t have to remember and speak up each moment about a preference, want, and/or need. Be sure to bring more than one copy in case it gets lost!

6. Be Flexible and Be Prepared

I always tell my clients that you and your partner may have a certain way that you want your baby to be born, but at the end of the day, it’s ultimately up to your baby. If you baby is breech, is tangled in the umbilical cord, has a low heartrate, etc. things can change. As long as baby is doing okay, you can try other things before resorting straight to a c-section, but you need to be flexible with your plan and be prepared if changes do occur. It’s important to ask questions and watch videos about vaginal births and c-sections before the big day. You don’t want to be surprised or unsure of what’s going on because it can cause a lot of fear in you and your partner which is something neither of you want to experience during the birth of your baby.

7. Hire a Doula

If all of this sounds like a lot to you and it is too much to have all on your shoulders, that’s okay. And that’s normal. Men used to not even be allowed in the delivery room and now they are expected to be experts at supporting laboring women. They are supposed to know how to best help their partners have a beautiful and happy birth experience. It’s a lot to handle. To massage her, get her ice, fan her until she cools down, coach her with each contraction, keep her comfortable, know which position for her to get in next, advocate for her, and so much more. You are also becoming a father in this moment too. Doulas honor all of this.

Hiring a doula will allow you to have another support person in the room that is specifically there to keep you and your partner informed on what’s going on and what your choices are, keep your partner as comfortable as much as possible with massage, counter-pressure, hydrotherapy, be your advocate and the list goes on. I always tell dads that in any sport you need a good coach to help you prepare to have a winning game. Doulas do the same thing and are your coach during your labor and birthing time. By hiring a doula, you can enjoy more of this time becoming a dad, have a better outcome and “win” the game.

There it is! My 7 tips for dads during labor and birth to help you be the perfect birth partner. Comment below if you have any questions or if there is anything you would add to the list. 🙂

About the Author /

Nina is The Baby Chick® & CEO of Baby Chick®. She is a baby planner, birth doula, postpartum doula, childbirth educator, newborn care specialist, and a mother. With over eight years of experience, she has supported hundreds of families during their pregnancies, births, and postpartum journeys.

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It can feel tricky and tiring to try and do it all right and then sometimes still feel like you’re at a loss. But the truth is, there’s never any way to make everything perfect. But there are things we can do that set our children up to feel secure and happy. And here are seven of my favorite tips. {Click 🔗 in bio to read more!}⁠
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Any oldie but goodie by @spiritysol⁠. ❤️⁠ Any oldie but goodie by @spiritysol⁠. ❤️⁠
Cesarean mamas--this one's for you. I hope you know that you are worthy. That you are such a warrior. That you are brave and powerful and strong as f✨ck. I hope you know that birthing your baby on an operating table makes you no less of a mother. No less of a goddess. Your birth story is holy and that beautiful scar on your belly is sacred as sh✨t. You are worthy of praise and celebration, honor and  admiration.⁠
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I hope that you know it was worth it. Knowing this does NOT mean you can't mourn your dream. It does NOT mean "you and your baby are safe--that's all that matters!" It does NOT mean you can't wish things had gone differently. But I hope that underneath it all, you can find beauty in what was. What is. Your baby. Your birth. Your strength. Your healing. Your story.⁠
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Your journey wasn't easy. Perhaps it unfolded much differently than you had hoped--perhaps it shook you to your core and left you feeling the immense weight of a "what if" and why".⁠
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Perhaps you're still wading through the heavy emotions of disappointment, anger, and grief. Perhaps you always will. But whatever feelings you hold in your heart and in your womb, I hope that you can look at your scar and say "Hell yes, it was worth it. And hell ya, I am worthy."⁠
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*This post was written for mamas who might be struggling with an unexpected or undesired cesarean birth. I recognize that there are mamas that choose to have planned/elective cesarean births who might not resonate with the message in this post. I honor them as well--as I honor all mothers, all women, and all beings.⁠
Words & 📷: @spiritysol⁠
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#motherhoodthroughinstagram #momlife #motherhood #momstruggles #momprobs #mumlife #mommylife #birth #motherhoodunplugged #realmoms #cesareanbirth #bellybirth #postpartum #newmom #childbirth #momsofinstagram #mommychick #motherhoodrising #ig_motherhood #uniteinmotherhood⁣ #babychick⁣
Because I gave him the wrong colored cup . . . whi Because I gave him the wrong colored cup . . . which is the color he originally asked for.⁠
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(quote via @HenpeckedHal via Twitter)⁠
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#motherhoodthroughinstagram #momlife #motherhood #momstruggles #momprobs #mumlife #mommylife #parenthood #motherhoodunplugged #realmoms #momstatus #thatmomlife #realmomlife #momsofinstagram #momhumor #motherhoodrising #ig_motherhood #uniteinmotherhood⁣ #babychick⁣ #mommychick
Hope they're ready for us!⁠ 👯‍♀️⁠
📷: @myquestionablelife⁠
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" . . . Tears contain stress hormones. Why would w " . . . Tears contain stress hormones. Why would we have tears if they didn't serve a purpose? Little hurts can feel big when you are little. There is no such things as no reason to cry. Comforting a crying child is not the same as shutting them down, no matter how sweetly we shut them down . . . up actually." - Pam Leo⁠
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#gentleparenting #motherhoodthroughinstagram #momlife #motherhood #parenting #parentlife #mumlife #mommylife #parenthood #motherhoodunplugged #realmoms #momstatus #thatmomlife #realmomlife #momsofinstagram #mommychick #motherhoodrising #ig_motherhood #uniteinmotherhood⁣ #babychick⁣ #healing #mentalhealth
"Every diaper change is a struggle⁠ Goldfish cru "Every diaper change is a struggle⁠
Goldfish crumbs are literally everywhere.⁠
Nothing stays in the correct place.⁠
Dramatic meltdowns are a part of our daily routine.⁠
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Being a mother to a new toddler is so challenging, and every day I'm not sure what to expect! But, even on the days where I think I'm going nuts, it's so worth getting to watch my daughter grow into her own person. I love seeing her personality expand with each day.⁠
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I won't lie though, I do get a tad bit freaked out sometimes! I mean I've never heard anyone nail the sound of a pterodactyl better than my daughter, when she's having a meltdown. 😂😳"⁠
Repost: @postpartum⁠
Words & 📷: @tori.mccain⁠
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Share your worst/funniest toddler meltdown stories below! I'm sure almost all of us mamas who have a toddler can relate. 🙋⁠
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#motherhoodthroughinstagram #momlife #motherhood #momstruggles #momprobs #mumlife #mommylife #parenthood #motherhoodunplugged #realmoms #momstatus #thatmomlife #realmomlife #momsofinstagram #momhumor #motherhoodrising #ig_motherhood #uniteinmotherhood⁣ #babychick⁣ #mommychick
That's my kind of mom friend. 😂 Tag that mama w That's my kind of mom friend. 😂 Tag that mama who is your happy safe person. ❤️⁠
📷: @lifeandtimesofmom⁠
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#motherhoodthroughinstagram #momlife #motherhood #momstruggles #momprobs #mumlife #mommylife #parenthood #motherhoodunplugged #realmoms #momstatus #thatmomlife #realmomlife #momsofinstagram #momhumor #motherhoodrising #ig_motherhood #uniteinmotherhood⁣ #babychick⁣ #mommychick
8 Ways to Beat the Winter Blues When You're Stuck 8 Ways to Beat the Winter Blues When You're Stuck Inside⁠
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⁠When the snow first starts falling, it’s a great feeling. Your house is cozy inside, school is cancelled—three cheers for a snow day! The kids are excited and you can’t help but feel some excitement, too. However, after a few days of being snowed in, we can all start to get a bit stir crazy, especially with our littles cooped up at home with us. We're sharing eight creative ways to beat those winter blues when you feel like you’re stuck indoors! {Click 🔗 in bio to continue reading!}⁠
📷: @cecileadams⁠
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#winterblues #snowday #snowedin #winter #winterwonderland #winterfun #wintertime #home #indoorideas #motherhoodthroughinstagram #momlife #motherhood #momstruggles #momprobs #mumlife #mommylife #parenthood #motherhoodunplugged #realmoms #momstatus #thatmomlife #realmomlife #momsofinstagram #mommychick #motherhoodrising #ig_motherhood #uniteinmotherhood⁣ #babychick⁣
Where do I sign up for my parenting punchcard? 🙋‍♀️⁠
📷: @momtransparenting⁠
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#motherhoodthroughinstagram #momlife #motherhood #momstruggles #momprobs #mumlife #mommylife #parenthood #motherhoodunplugged #realmoms #momstatus #thatmomlife #realmomlife #momsofinstagram #momhumor #motherhoodrising #ig_motherhood #uniteinmotherhood⁣ #babychick⁣ #mommychick
Whatever you gotta do to get in some self care, ma Whatever you gotta do to get in some self care, mama. 💁‍♀️😂⁠
(quote via @fruitsofmotherhood)⁠
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#motherhoodthroughinstagram #momlife #motherhood #momstruggles #momprobs #mumlife #mommylife #parenthood #motherhoodunplugged #realmoms #momstatus #thatmomlife #realmomlife #momsofinstagram #momhumor #motherhoodrising #ig_motherhood #uniteinmotherhood⁣ #babychick⁣ #mommychick #parenting #parentlife
But in 2020 🤔🤔🤔😂😂😂😂⁠ jk
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#motherhoodthroughinstagram #momlife #motherhood #newyearnewme #momprobs #mumlife #mommylife #parenthood #motherhoodunplugged #realmoms #momstatus #thatmomlife #realmomlife #momsofinstagram #momhumor #motherhoodrising #ig_motherhood #uniteinmotherhood⁣ #babychick⁣ #mommychick
Having your baby look like their dad is like being Having your baby look like their dad is like being back in school when you did all the work in a group project and they got the higher grade. 😑⁠ Annoying AF.⁠
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Who do your kids look more like?⁠
📷: @misshoneybakes⁠
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#pregnancy #pregnant #newborn #momtobe #pregnancylife #newmom #mamatobe #newbaby #postpartum #pregnancyjourney #mommylife #fourthtrimester #preggo #4thtrimester #maternity #motherhood #momlife #expecting #mumlife #mommytobe #pregnantlife #babyontheway #inspirepregnancy #mommychick #babychick
When you announcement to the kids that you're expe When you announcement to the kids that you're expecting another little one and one of your children asks where babies come from. 😳 This is when you starting thinking about when and how you need to start talking about the "birds and the bees" with your kids.⁠
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Talking about sex with anyone can be weird. But having the sex talk with your kid . . . well, that's a whole new level of weird. Some parents try to avoid having "the talk" for as long as humanly possible. While other parents jump right in at the first hint of their child's curiosity. Some parents find the topic relatively easy to discuss, while others are humiliated just thinking about it. 🙈 No matter where you fall on this wide spectrum, one fact remains: someone has to teach your child about sex. And it should probably be you.⁠
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So where do you start? How do you talk about it? And when? Of course, there are no right or wrong answers to these questions. Each parent will broach this subject in they way they feel is best. But if you're like me and need a bit of guidance, here are some tips for teaching your kids about the birds and the bees. {Click 🔗 in bio to read more!}⁠
📷: @livvylandblog⁠
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#motherhoodthroughinstagram #momlife #motherhood #birdsandthebees #momprobs #mumlife #mommylife #parenthood #motherhoodunplugged #realmoms #momstatus #thatmomlife #realmomlife #momsofinstagram #letstalkaboutsex #motherhoodrising #ig_motherhood #uniteinmotherhood⁣ #babychick⁣ #mommychick #thesextalk
Every boy mom wants to be like WTF . . . For real, Every boy mom wants to be like WTF . . . For real, are they rotating sprinklers or something?⁠
📷: @snarkybreeders⁠
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#boymom #momofboys #momlife #dadlife #boymomlife #momsofinstagram #pottytraining #motherhoodthroughinstagram #motherhood #momstruggles #momprobs #mumlife #mommylife #parenthood #motherhoodunplugged #realmoms #momstatus #thatmomlife #realmomlife #momhumor #motherhoodrising #ig_motherhood #uniteinmotherhood⁣ #babychick⁣ #mommychick
They are the ultimate weighted blanket. Their litt They are the ultimate weighted blanket. Their little body breathing in and out while lying on your chest is intoxicating. It fills you with so much love and peace. There is truly nothing better. 💕⁠
(quote via @torturedbytoddlers)⁠
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#motherhoodthroughinstagram #momlife #motherhood #parenting #parentlife #mumlife #mommylife #parenthood #motherhoodunplugged #realmoms #momstatus #thatmomlife #realmomlife #momsofinstagram #mommychick #motherhoodrising #ig_motherhood #uniteinmotherhood⁣ #babychick⁣
Mindful Eating Tips After Baby - Podcast Episode 2 Mindful Eating Tips After Baby - Podcast Episode 23⁠
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The holidays can be a hectic and stressful time for many (especially moms). And on top of that, this time of year can be loaded with diet talk. 🤦‍♀️ You're not alone if all this talk about weight loss/gain, New Year's diet plans & the justification/shaming of eating XYZ is getting to you! It is to me too. Another time in life when women feel like they should shred some weight . . . after they have a baby. 🤰 While I'm not about women feeling they should change their postpartum bodies--our bodies have done so much for us and our babies and we are beautiful exactly the way we are--I am supportive of women wanting to nurture and take care of their bodies and living more mindfully. ❤️⁠
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I had the chance to chat with @drsusanalbers on our podcast about mindful eating, what it is, and how (and why) new mothers might want to incorporate this practice into their lives. Let's combat the diet culture this time of year and focus more on living and eating mindfully. {Click 🔗 in bio to listen to the episode!}⁠
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#mindfuleating #postpartum #newmom #wellness #health #intuitiveeating #bodypositive #bodylove #consciouseating #mindfulness #motherhood #momlife #4thtrimester #fourthtrimester #bodypositivity #fitmom #selflove #4thtribodies #fourthtribodies #everybodyisbeautiful #postnatal #babychick #mommychick
So. Many. Pump. Parts. Raise your hand if you agre So. Many. Pump. Parts. Raise your hand if you agree. 🙋‍♀️⁠
📷: @susu.stash⁠
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#motherhoodthroughinstagram #momlife #motherhood #momstruggles #momprobs #mumlife #mommylife #parenthood #motherhoodunplugged #realmoms #momstatus #thatmomlife #realmomlife #momsofinstagram #momhumor #motherhoodrising #ig_motherhood #uniteinmotherhood⁣ #babychick⁣ #mommychick #breastfeeding #nursing #breastpump #pumpingmom #pumpingmama #breastmilk
Motherhood and The Enneagram: Parenting Tips by Ty Motherhood and The Enneagram: Parenting Tips by Type⁠
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Knowing your Enneagram type is a lot of fun and can really bring some insight into how you act and react to other types and situations. The Enneagram differs from other personality typing systems because it encourages growth and identifies healthy and unhealthy behaviors within each of the nine types. Learning about yourself in this way is also a really great way to grow (or perhaps change for the better) as a parent. And we all could use good growth and change, right?⁠
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If you know your Enneagram type, we're sharing the parenting advice you probably need to hear. ❤️ {Click on 🔗 to continue reading!}⁠
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#motherhoodthroughinstagram #momlife #motherhood #momstruggles #momprobs #mumlife #mommylife #parenthood #parenting #parentlife #enneagram #parentingenneagram #motherhoodunplugged #realmoms #momstatus #thatmomlife #realmomlife #momsofinstagram #momhumor #motherhoodrising #ig_motherhood #uniteinmotherhood⁣ #babychick⁣ #mommychick
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