What To Do In Early Labor

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What To Do In Early Labor

Early labor. It’s the time when things start happening. You begin telling yourself, “Finally. This is it!” And you, more than likely, are so ready to get the party started. You also are probably feeling a million other emotions as well — anxiety, nervousness, excitement, maybe you’re freaking out, uncertainty, relieved, scared…essentially you’re feeling every emotion at once because you are so ready to meet your baby, but you’re also not sure what to expect from labor.

First of all, feeling all of these emotions is extremely normal and very common, but there are some things that you should do during early labor to ensure that you have a good labor and delivery. You are about to get on a crazy ride called labor so buckle up! I’m about to walk you through what to do in the beginning — early labor.

First Things First, What Is Early Labor?

If you went to a childbirth class, which hopefully you did, you learned that early labor is the longest and least intense stretch of labor. It’s the time when your cervix moves from the posterior position to the anterior (front) position and it begins to soften, efface (thin out), and it is preparing to dilate (open). People determine that you are in early labor by your dilation and your contraction pattern. For dilation, early labor is when your cervix is zero to four centimeters dilated.

This is also why people normally recommend getting an epidural (at the very earliest) at 4cm; once you are in active labor. For contractions, those dull contractions that you’ll be feeling will be shorter than a minute long, more than 5 minutes spaced apart (from the start of one contraction to the start of the next contraction), and this will probably last for hours. Potentially on and off for a day or so. On average, early labor lasts between 6 and 12 hours for first time mothers. This time decreases with each child you have. But hopefully you’re eating dates at the end of your pregnancy so it won’t be as long for you. 😉

What Does Early Labor Feel Like?

Typically, early labor can feel like lower backache, aching in your lower tummy, cramps (like menstrual cramps or gas pain), or low-intensity contractions. Some women notice them immediately and other women don’t notice them until they are further in labor. Both are normal.

Since this is the longest part of labor, what do you do when you first start recognizing signs of early labor?

6 Tips For What to Do in Early Labor

1. Rest and Relax as Much as Possible!

Most women think that when they start feeling contractions that they should go on a long walk or go for a swim and do some laps to pick up the pace and speed up labor. Well I am here to tell you it really isn’t that beneficial and actually is not a good idea. Why? Those activities won’t speed up your labor and you are wasting your energy on the easiest part of your labor.

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I mean have you ever heard of a marathon runner starting the race off with a sprint? Absolutely not. If they did, they wouldn’t be able to finish the race because they would burn out their energy. They have a long way to go and so do you! You would be burning all of your energy and saving none of it for the toughest part of labor, which is the end and when you need to push. This is why trying to rest and relax as much as possible during early labor is best. You want to save and reserve as much stamina for the tough part.

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I recommend that you avoid getting in the tub or a pool during early labor because it will work against you. The weightlessness works against gravity and it can result in slowing down or stalling your labor. This is why it’s good to wait until you’re 7 cm dilated (which is the ‘transition’ stage) until you get in the water. If you want to use water for pain relief before you reach transition, I recommend using the shower instead. If your craving to get in the tub though before transition, only stay in there for at most 30 minutes at a time. Submerging yourself in the water before you’re 7cm can and probably will cause your labor to slow down.

If your labor begins at night, try to go back to sleep. I know that it’s easier said than done since you are now excited and ready to have your baby, but remember there is a long road and you need to rest to prepare for what’s to come.

2. Distract Yourself

In between trying to get some sleep and/or rest, you should try to keep yourself distracted. You want to keep your mind off of what’s going on inside you and focus on other things to help pass the time. Some options are:

  • Watch a movie
  • Write in your pregnancy journal
  • Get your baby book ready
  • Bake some cookies for your nurses at the hospital — they will love that thoughtful gift and it can win them over which can make them more accommodating to your wants and needs
  • Get a massage
  • Get your nails done
  • Go out to eat — your last meal as a family of two (or more if you have other children)
  • Prepare some snacks for you to nibble on throughout labor
  • Make some popsicles and have them ready in your freezer for recovery
  • Go on a relaxing walk around the neighborhood

You name it! Maybe you even have some last minute projects that you still need to get done. Do them! Anything that will take your mind off things for a while is of great benefit in early labor. This way time will pass by a little faster and you won’t be focusing so much on the clock. Just be sure to rest and relax between your projects to conserve your energy.

3. Keep Nourished and Hydrated

Did you know that eating light snacks and staying hydrated during early labor has been shown to reduce the total length of labor by as much as 90 minutes?! Awesome, right? This is why you want to make sure that you are drinking enough water during early labor (and labor in general) to avoid dehydration (since being dehydrated can cause you to have ineffective contractions) and for food, you want to eat foods that are going to give you lasting energy.

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Carbs are a great choice for that. If eating carbs feel too heavy for you to eat at that time, try having a smoothie, some fruit, a granola or protein bar. Just know that whatever you are eating in early labor you may see again during active labor or transition since it’s common to throw up in labor. This is why I don’t recommend anything fried or greasy.

NOTE: Try to avoid spicy food during early labor since it can cause you to have diarrhea during labor which is no fun.

4. Stay At Home For As Long As Possible 

Because of what’s shown in the movies and what society has told us, you may think that you need to rush to the hospital as soon as your water breaks or as soon as you start feeling some regular contractions, but this simply is not true! (Unless: there is meconium in your water, you have an infection, or you feel your baby’s cord coming out — cord prolapse.) Otherwise, you can take your time until you feel that labor has reached active labor before you head to the hospital.

I will say that if you are concerned, don’t feel safe, or feel you cannot cope at home for much longer, then those are times when you should go to the hospital. Otherwise, staying home as long as you can is the best option for everyone because it gives you a better chance of having a shorter and more positive experience. Why is that? Your body is familiar with your surroundings and knows that you and your baby are safe in your home. When you go to the hospital, it is a foreign setting with new sights and smells and your body can begin to slow down if you arrive to the hospital too early in labor. Also, the earlier you arrive, the more likely the hospital staff with introduce interventions.

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Another benefit to staying at home as long as possible is that it will keep you off the hospital’s clock.

What does that mean?

Well, as soon as you check into the hospital, the hospital staff records all of your progress and keeps an eye on you because they want to make sure that you are progressing enough to their standards. They typically want you to dilate 1cm an hour (which I think is crazy because different women birth differently). But if you are not progressing the way that they would like, then this is when they will start recommending interventions — such as breaking your water, giving you pitocin, or even doing a c-section. You have to remember that it can take a while to give birth to a baby and the last thing you need is to feel pressure.

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In your vulnerable state, you may start doubting your body or your ability to birth well if your medical team is making you feel stressed. This pressure can cause women to ask or accept forms of induction to help get it over with. The only problem with that is that it significantly increases your chances of having an emergency c-section. Actually, for first time mothers, it doubles your chances of needing an emergency c-section if you get induced. This is mainly because induced labor is much stronger and more intense than your natural contractions.

Even with an epidural to relieve the pain, your baby still feels the effects of the more intense contractions and it can cause your baby’s heart-rate to plummet since the harder and faster contractions compress their blood and oxygen supply. This usually then ends in an emergency c-section. Sadly, mothers then think that their bodies have failed them and that their body can’t dilate and give birth to a baby. This couldn’t be further from the truth. This is why it’s important to relax and stay at home as long as you can. (Read here why you don’t want to be induced.)

5. Have Your Bags Packed and Ready to Go

Hopefully you will already have your hospital bags packed and ready, but once you start recognizing that things are beginning to happen, it’s a good time to make sure that you have everything you will need ready by the door or even in the car. If you’re not sure what to pack for the hospital, here’s my list!

6. Don’t Feel Disappointed or Discouraged!

If your labor is lasting longer than you hoped, don’t feel disappointed or discouraged. Again, early labor is the longest phase of labor and is not in any way a sign of what is to come. Just remember that having anxiety or stress can slow or stall your labor and that’s the last thing you want to do!

Labor really is like running a marathon. You need to prepare yourself in advance, pace yourself early on. Also, have calories and fluids to keep up your energy. You may want to be on your own and zone out from normal life, or you may need someone to encourage you. It could be a doula or a friend who has had a positive experience of birth or just you and your partner. (Here are some tips on how partners can help during labor.)

Above all, listen to your body. Experiment with positions that you find comfortable and do what feels right, whether it’s getting rest or moving around. Things will eventually pick up and if you follow these tips, you will be ready for what’s to come.

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About the Author /

Nina is The Baby Chick® & CEO of Baby Chick®. She is a baby planner, birth doula, postpartum doula, childbirth educator, newborn care specialist, and a mother. With over eight years of experience, she has supported hundreds of families during their pregnancies, births, and postpartum journeys.

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It can feel tricky and tiring to try and do it all right and then sometimes still feel like you’re at a loss. But the truth is, there’s never any way to make everything perfect. But there are things we can do that set our children up to feel secure and happy. And here are seven of my favorite tips. {Click 🔗 in bio to read more!}⁠
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Cesarean mamas--this one's for you. I hope you know that you are worthy. That you are such a warrior. That you are brave and powerful and strong as f✨ck. I hope you know that birthing your baby on an operating table makes you no less of a mother. No less of a goddess. Your birth story is holy and that beautiful scar on your belly is sacred as sh✨t. You are worthy of praise and celebration, honor and  admiration.⁠
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I hope that you know it was worth it. Knowing this does NOT mean you can't mourn your dream. It does NOT mean "you and your baby are safe--that's all that matters!" It does NOT mean you can't wish things had gone differently. But I hope that underneath it all, you can find beauty in what was. What is. Your baby. Your birth. Your strength. Your healing. Your story.⁠
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Your journey wasn't easy. Perhaps it unfolded much differently than you had hoped--perhaps it shook you to your core and left you feeling the immense weight of a "what if" and why".⁠
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Perhaps you're still wading through the heavy emotions of disappointment, anger, and grief. Perhaps you always will. But whatever feelings you hold in your heart and in your womb, I hope that you can look at your scar and say "Hell yes, it was worth it. And hell ya, I am worthy."⁠
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*This post was written for mamas who might be struggling with an unexpected or undesired cesarean birth. I recognize that there are mamas that choose to have planned/elective cesarean births who might not resonate with the message in this post. I honor them as well--as I honor all mothers, all women, and all beings.⁠
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Because I gave him the wrong colored cup . . . whi Because I gave him the wrong colored cup . . . which is the color he originally asked for.⁠
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(quote via @HenpeckedHal via Twitter)⁠
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Hope they're ready for us!⁠ 👯‍♀️⁠
📷: @myquestionablelife⁠
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" . . . Tears contain stress hormones. Why would w " . . . Tears contain stress hormones. Why would we have tears if they didn't serve a purpose? Little hurts can feel big when you are little. There is no such things as no reason to cry. Comforting a crying child is not the same as shutting them down, no matter how sweetly we shut them down . . . up actually." - Pam Leo⁠
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#gentleparenting #motherhoodthroughinstagram #momlife #motherhood #parenting #parentlife #mumlife #mommylife #parenthood #motherhoodunplugged #realmoms #momstatus #thatmomlife #realmomlife #momsofinstagram #mommychick #motherhoodrising #ig_motherhood #uniteinmotherhood⁣ #babychick⁣ #healing #mentalhealth
"Every diaper change is a struggle⁠ Goldfish cru "Every diaper change is a struggle⁠
Goldfish crumbs are literally everywhere.⁠
Nothing stays in the correct place.⁠
Dramatic meltdowns are a part of our daily routine.⁠
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Being a mother to a new toddler is so challenging, and every day I'm not sure what to expect! But, even on the days where I think I'm going nuts, it's so worth getting to watch my daughter grow into her own person. I love seeing her personality expand with each day.⁠
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I won't lie though, I do get a tad bit freaked out sometimes! I mean I've never heard anyone nail the sound of a pterodactyl better than my daughter, when she's having a meltdown. 😂😳"⁠
Repost: @postpartum⁠
Words & 📷: @tori.mccain⁠
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Share your worst/funniest toddler meltdown stories below! I'm sure almost all of us mamas who have a toddler can relate. 🙋⁠
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That's my kind of mom friend. 😂 Tag that mama w That's my kind of mom friend. 😂 Tag that mama who is your happy safe person. ❤️⁠
📷: @lifeandtimesofmom⁠
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8 Ways to Beat the Winter Blues When You're Stuck 8 Ways to Beat the Winter Blues When You're Stuck Inside⁠
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⁠When the snow first starts falling, it’s a great feeling. Your house is cozy inside, school is cancelled—three cheers for a snow day! The kids are excited and you can’t help but feel some excitement, too. However, after a few days of being snowed in, we can all start to get a bit stir crazy, especially with our littles cooped up at home with us. We're sharing eight creative ways to beat those winter blues when you feel like you’re stuck indoors! {Click 🔗 in bio to continue reading!}⁠
📷: @cecileadams⁠
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#winterblues #snowday #snowedin #winter #winterwonderland #winterfun #wintertime #home #indoorideas #motherhoodthroughinstagram #momlife #motherhood #momstruggles #momprobs #mumlife #mommylife #parenthood #motherhoodunplugged #realmoms #momstatus #thatmomlife #realmomlife #momsofinstagram #mommychick #motherhoodrising #ig_motherhood #uniteinmotherhood⁣ #babychick⁣
Where do I sign up for my parenting punchcard? 🙋‍♀️⁠
📷: @momtransparenting⁠
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Whatever you gotta do to get in some self care, ma Whatever you gotta do to get in some self care, mama. 💁‍♀️😂⁠
(quote via @fruitsofmotherhood)⁠
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But in 2020 🤔🤔🤔😂😂😂😂⁠ jk
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Having your baby look like their dad is like being Having your baby look like their dad is like being back in school when you did all the work in a group project and they got the higher grade. 😑⁠ Annoying AF.⁠
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Who do your kids look more like?⁠
📷: @misshoneybakes⁠
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When you announcement to the kids that you're expe When you announcement to the kids that you're expecting another little one and one of your children asks where babies come from. 😳 This is when you starting thinking about when and how you need to start talking about the "birds and the bees" with your kids.⁠
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Talking about sex with anyone can be weird. But having the sex talk with your kid . . . well, that's a whole new level of weird. Some parents try to avoid having "the talk" for as long as humanly possible. While other parents jump right in at the first hint of their child's curiosity. Some parents find the topic relatively easy to discuss, while others are humiliated just thinking about it. 🙈 No matter where you fall on this wide spectrum, one fact remains: someone has to teach your child about sex. And it should probably be you.⁠
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So where do you start? How do you talk about it? And when? Of course, there are no right or wrong answers to these questions. Each parent will broach this subject in they way they feel is best. But if you're like me and need a bit of guidance, here are some tips for teaching your kids about the birds and the bees. {Click 🔗 in bio to read more!}⁠
📷: @livvylandblog⁠
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Every boy mom wants to be like WTF . . . For real, Every boy mom wants to be like WTF . . . For real, are they rotating sprinklers or something?⁠
📷: @snarkybreeders⁠
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They are the ultimate weighted blanket. Their litt They are the ultimate weighted blanket. Their little body breathing in and out while lying on your chest is intoxicating. It fills you with so much love and peace. There is truly nothing better. 💕⁠
(quote via @torturedbytoddlers)⁠
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Mindful Eating Tips After Baby - Podcast Episode 2 Mindful Eating Tips After Baby - Podcast Episode 23⁠
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The holidays can be a hectic and stressful time for many (especially moms). And on top of that, this time of year can be loaded with diet talk. 🤦‍♀️ You're not alone if all this talk about weight loss/gain, New Year's diet plans & the justification/shaming of eating XYZ is getting to you! It is to me too. Another time in life when women feel like they should shred some weight . . . after they have a baby. 🤰 While I'm not about women feeling they should change their postpartum bodies--our bodies have done so much for us and our babies and we are beautiful exactly the way we are--I am supportive of women wanting to nurture and take care of their bodies and living more mindfully. ❤️⁠
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I had the chance to chat with @drsusanalbers on our podcast about mindful eating, what it is, and how (and why) new mothers might want to incorporate this practice into their lives. Let's combat the diet culture this time of year and focus more on living and eating mindfully. {Click 🔗 in bio to listen to the episode!}⁠
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So. Many. Pump. Parts. Raise your hand if you agre So. Many. Pump. Parts. Raise your hand if you agree. 🙋‍♀️⁠
📷: @susu.stash⁠
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Motherhood and The Enneagram: Parenting Tips by Ty Motherhood and The Enneagram: Parenting Tips by Type⁠
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Knowing your Enneagram type is a lot of fun and can really bring some insight into how you act and react to other types and situations. The Enneagram differs from other personality typing systems because it encourages growth and identifies healthy and unhealthy behaviors within each of the nine types. Learning about yourself in this way is also a really great way to grow (or perhaps change for the better) as a parent. And we all could use good growth and change, right?⁠
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If you know your Enneagram type, we're sharing the parenting advice you probably need to hear. ❤️ {Click on 🔗 to continue reading!}⁠
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My rendition of Goodnight Moon. 😂⁠ 📷: unkn My rendition of Goodnight Moon. 😂⁠
📷: unknown⁠
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It's like he turns into the Hulk when I change his It's like he turns into the Hulk when I change his diaper. 🤦‍♀️⁠
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