The Importance of Me Time as a Mother

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The Importance of Me Time as a Mother

In the past decade, studies have shown that, despite the apparent improvements in women’s lives over the last 50 years or so, women’s happiness levels have steadily declined during that time. While there are many theories as to why this is, one could argue it’s because women’s lives are more hectic now than they have ever been. More women are trying to juggle a career, relationships, a family, a household, friendships, and other activities outside the home. And they are trying to do it all at once.

It’s no surprise, then, that many women (especially moms) are not making themselves a priority in their own lives. Are you guilty of that? I know I am. Since becoming a mom, I have found it increasingly difficult to get around to finding time for myself to do things just for me. The thing I’m realizing is that if you’re trying to find time, it will never happen. You have to make time.

I know what you’re thinking: yeah, right. I know because I’ve felt that way, too. But it is so important to make time for yourself. Because if you don’t, I can almost guarantee that you’ll end up like many of the women in the study who seem to have it all, but are still desperately unhappy. I know you don’t want that, and I know you don’t want your kids to witness that. So it is important that you start making yourself a priority now.

Why Is Me Time So Important?

You’re Not Just a Mom

I know it may feel like it sometimes, but you’re not “just a mom.” Yes, being a mom is an incredibly important job, perhaps even the most important job of your life, but it is not all that defines you. Before you were a mom you were a woman with goals, hopes, and dreams. Before you were a mom, you were likely a wife. Before you were a mom, you were a friend, a colleague, a co-worker. While those roles in your life may have fallen away since having your baby, they are no less a part of who you are now. Those roles have helped to mold you into the person you are and, one day, you may have to or want to put on those old hats again. Your hopes, dreams, goals, friends, career, relationships . . . they’re all still there and you have every right to continue to pursue them. Yes, being a mom is wonderful and so important. But so is who you are underneath that one layer.

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They Grow Up

Believe it or not, your babies won’t be babies for much longer. I know it’s cliche, but they grow up in the blink of an eye. Once those kids are out of your house (heck, once they hit junior high and want nothing to do with you), if you don’t have interests and activities that fill you up outside of raising your children you are going to feel very lost and alone. Listen, none of us want to be that helicopter mom that follows her kid to the mall and watches him in stealth mode. But if you don’t start to cultivate healthy, enjoyable, fulfilling hobbies or interests that are JUST FOR YOU now, you may end up being that creepy mall mom before you know it.

Be An Example

For better or for worse, your kids are watching you ALL THE TIME. They learn more by the example you set than by the words that you repeat to them (likely on an hourly basis). When you fail to take time for yourself, you run the risk of teaching your children that they are the center of the universe, which inevitably leads to selfish kids. By taking time for yourself on a regular basis, you are showing your children that you and your interests matter and that your life outside of them is valuable. Having a mom who feels happy and fulfilled will be more beneficial to your children than having a mom who sacrifices her passions for her children. When they see you actively pursuing a goal, a dream, or simply taking time to read a book because you enjoy it, you’re teaching them that you value yourself as much as you value taking care of them. That is a powerful lesson.

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It Makes You a Better Mom

If you’ve ever been on an airplane, you know that one of the most important instructions in the safety speech is that if the oxygen masks fall from the overhead compartment, you are to put it over your face first before putting a mask over your child’s face. The purpose for that instruction is because you can’t help your child if you haven’t filled up your lungs with life-giving oxygen first. The same is true in motherhood. The more you fill up your personal fulfillment tank, the more your are able to pour into your children. Regularly taking time for yourself helps you to be a better mom.

How Do I Make It Happen?

So, we’ve established that taking time for yourself is important, right? Your next question is likely, “But, how?” I get it. You’re super busy, you have a lot on your plate and the days and weeks seem to be just passing you by. It seems impossible to make a little time to focus on yourself, I know, but it’s not. Here are some ideas for carving out some valuable “me time” on a regular basis (and by regular basis, I mean as often as you can fit it in at this stage of your life, which may be once a month or it may be once a day):

  • Go out to lunch or to a coffee shop ALL BY YOURSELF. Bring a book or a magazine or take time to make that phone call to your friend that you keep putting off.
  • Go window shopping or go try on some pretty dresses you can’t afford. You don’t have to buy anything!
  • Get a manicure or pedicure . . . or both! Or spring for a massage.
  • Go for a walk with your headphones and nothing else. Listen to your favorite (non-Disney) music and let your mind wander.
  • Take a bubble bath. Bonus points for taking a glass of wine with you. 😉
  • Get up early in the morning (before the kids gets up) and read, or do a Bible study, or write in your journal.
  • Watch your favorite television show while the baby naps (I promise, the laundry will still be there later).
  • Work on a craft you’ve been wanting to start, but never got around to.
  • Do some yoga or meditate.
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Whatever it is that you choose to do, be all in. Try not to let the thoughts of how much you have to do around the house, or whether your kids are surviving (or whether their father is surviving) in your absence, ruin your time. Everything you have to do will still be there when you get back. Your husband is a parent, too, he will be just fine. The kids will not be taken by the fairies while you are away. I promise, everyone will be okay while you tend to yourself for a while. It will be worth it, for you, your spouse, and your kids, for you to take a little time away in exchange for a happy and fulfilled mama.

About the Author /

Cheyenne is an attorney, writer, speaker and blogger with a slight obsession for home decor, red wine, and good coffee. Cheyenne’s blog, Sense & Serendipity, focuses on inspiring others to create a home well loved and a life well lived. Cheyenne lives in San Marcos, Texas with her two children, Aislin and Hawkins.

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📺 How to Balance Technology for Kids During Qua 📺 How to Balance Technology for Kids During Quarantine 🏡⁠
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Let's face it. Technology is now a way of life for families. Whether your kids are stuck at home for a few weeks or just for a few rainy days, technology is always going to be something they'll reach for to entertain themselves. And that's not necessarily a bad thing; however, there should always be a balance of technology, especially for kids.⁠
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Some families choose to restrict screen time. While other families tend to be more lenient when it comes to tech. Technology can offer some positive benefits for our kids. However, as we all know, there are also some negative effects of technology for kids. This doesn't mean that we have to keep our kids away from technology, necessarily. But it does mean that there should be limits, or a balance, to when and how much tech they consume. We are sharing some ways you can help your kids find that balance with technology when they're quarantined these next few weeks.⁠ {Click 🔗 in bio to continue reading!}⁠
Article by: Tasha Mayberry⁠
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Words written by @th3littlestavenger’s husband:⁠
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"Hayley asked me to write something about her postpartum body.⁠
I figured it'd be easy but then I started thinking--⁠
what is there to even write about?⁠
Sure, things look and feel slightly different--but in the grand scheme of things, nothing changed.⁠
The reasons I fell in love with her had nothing to do with any of the body parts affected by her postpartum.⁠
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She still has the same beautiful smile, determined mind, banging body, and strong work ethic as the girl I feel in love with over 15 years ago.⁠
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She still smells great and tastes great too.⁠
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The soft pillowy skin around her belly button held my three best friends for 18 months.⁠
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My wife isn't perfect and that's what makes me love her.⁠
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🤰 Study Says Giving Birth is Harder than Runnin 🤰 Study Says Giving Birth is Harder than Running a Marathon 🏃‍♀️⁠
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🚪 Organize and Streamline Your Life as a Mom – Podcast Ep 29 🏡⁠
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It feels like our world as we knew it has flipped completely upside down the past few weeks. 🔁 With the Coronavirus pandemic, our everyday routines have been shaken up and, for many of us, not in a good way. 😫 Now that we are forced to figure out how to work from home AND take care of our children full-time, we are slowly discovering our new normals. 🤹‍♀️ This is the time, more than ever, to organize and streamline our lives and our homes. ❤️⁠
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Today on Chick Chat: The Baby Chick Podcast 🎙️, I'm chatting with Meggie Mangione, the CEO of @organizedlifedesign and 6 year accredited NAPO Professional Organizer. 💕 Clutter and chaos can really affect us as parents and employees (now working from home) so I thought it would be great to chat with Meggie to help us organize and streamline our lives as moms. On today's episode Meggie is sharing some great tips on how to conquer the clutter! 🙌 {Click 🔗 in bio to listen to the episode!}⁠
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And no, Scar, I wasn't *prepared* for this sh*t st And no, Scar, I wasn't *prepared* for this sh*t storm. 😒⁠
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"Don't get me wrong, I am very open and receptive "Don't get me wrong, I am very open and receptive to advice, I will never claim to know it all. But, sometimes a mama just needs to vent. It can be very exhausting as a mom when you open up about a challenge you're facing and then receive an overwhelming list of different things to do or try to 'fix it'. Especially when you've already tried it all or heard it all. Sometimes all a mama needs is an ear to listen and to know they aren't alone. Google can offer a list of possible solutions, Google definitely can't offer the nod of understanding that a friend can. ❤️"⁠
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And even now more than ever, we all are just trying to survive and do our best. Let's support one another as we all navigate these uncharted territories . . . together apart.⁠ ❤️
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👩‍🏫 Homeschooling 101: Setting Up a Learni 👩‍🏫 Homeschooling 101: Setting Up a Learning Space 🔡⁠
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A homeschooling mom is sharing her great tips on how to create a good learning environment for your child in your home. 🏡 She recommends that before you create a learning space, get to know HOW (visual, auditory, tactile, etc.) your child learns and what he or she is passionate about. You don't need to re-create school at home. Your child's learning space needs to be unique to how they best learn. This is a whole new kind of education. And the journey is truly an adventure. ❤️⁠
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Her tips are gold! 💰 {Click 🔗 in bio to read them!}⁠
Article by: Jennifer Hill Robenalt⁠
📷: @courtney.tracy⁠
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"Domesticity does not equal motherhood. 🙅‍♀ "Domesticity does not equal motherhood. 🙅‍♀️ I once sat in a class where teenage girls said they needed to learn how to cook, do laundry, and clean if they wanted to one day be good moms.

I stopped and told them that cooking, doing laundry, and cleaning are part of being an ADULT. Those are not the things that make up motherhood.

But I get where they got that conclusion.

You always hear women say they aren't good moms when they don't make homemade lunches, prepare cupcakes for the bake sale, show up to the doctor with kids who have brushed hair, or get the laundry put away in a decent time. 'I'm such a bad mom. I sent store-bought Valentines to school with my kid.' 'Mom fail. I didn't get the laundry done.' 'I'm a failure as a mom. I don't make homemade bread/cookies/whatever.' NO.

Your 'success' as a mother is not defined by domestic duties. Domestic duties are part of being an adult.

While your children do need to be changed and fed, that's not the summation of MOTHERHOOD. Anyone can change and feed children, including dads. You can hire someone to clean your house and feed your kids, and you'll still be a mom.

And if you weren't a mom, you'd still have to clean your house, cook food, and do laundry.

You're not a bad mom because you didn't do laundry in time. Let's stop combining domestic duties with motherhood, because they just aren't the same. Yes, moms do domestic things. And they raise children. These are two separate things.

Your housekeeping is not your motherhood, and you're giving away power when you combine the two and judge one against the other.

You are a good mom because you love your child, and you try to help them learn the things they need to learn. You worry about your kids, you spend time with them, you plan for their future, and so much more.

You might be terrible at domestic duties (I don't know) or you might be the best housekeeper in the world. But neither end of the spectrum--or anything in between--determines if you're a good mom or not.

Housekeeping is NOT motherhood."
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And especially now, EVERYTHING is on my mind and i And especially now, EVERYTHING is on my mind and it feels like the weight of the world is on my shoulders. Providing for my family, raising a healthy and well-rounded child, taking care of the house, the pets, nurturing my relationship with my partner. The weight is heavy, but at the same time, I am so grateful for what I have and to be a mom. ❤️⁠
📷: @babysleep_answers⁠
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FOR REAL! Check on your friends with toddlers. We FOR REAL! Check on your friends with toddlers. We are NOT okay. 🤪🙈
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How you feel at bedtime on what feels like day 382 How you feel at bedtime on what feels like day 382 of quarantine. 😑⚔️💀😂⁠
📷: @thedecentmother⁠
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God bless all of the mamas (expecting and beyond) God bless all of the mamas (expecting and beyond) out there! 🙏⁠ Our hearts are with you all during this time. 💕
📷: @thegingypants⁠
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DISCLAIMER: This is a USED expired PPE from @thegingypants basement. (She is an RN.) Please consider donating any UNUSED MASKS to your area hospitals who are in dire need. 💕
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My "coworker" can be such an a$$hole. 😒⁠ 📷 My "coworker" can be such an a$$hole. 😒⁠
📷: @macaroniandmomjeans⁠
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"30 hours of labor ended with an emergency C-secti "30 hours of labor ended with an emergency C-section... not what we planned but I learned pretty quickly that night that having a plan for bringing a human into the world is a fool's errand. All that mattered was that he got here safely. Having him in the middle of a global health crisis was also not in the baby prep books, but here we are. Holding him and healing my body in a maternity ward that's eerily quiet from us not being allowed visitors or family at this time, but strangely serene. All we hear are monitors beeping and the coos of our infant son. Maybe the sound of the 100th episode of The Office @ryanhurd and I have binged while in here. The admiration we have for the doctors, nurses + healthcare professionals that took care of Hayes & me during our stay cannot be measured in this post. They risked their health every day to make sure ours was okay. I can't think of anything more selfless than that. Ultimately, I can't thank every single mother enough for going through what you've gone through because I had NO idea how hard it could be, and I'm a measly 4 days in. The world is changing before our eyes and so am I. That's been a peaceful thing to cling to during these uncertain times. Thinking of you all. 🖤" - @marenmorris and her birth to her son Hayes Andrew Hurd 💕⁠
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Congratulations, @marenmorris! You are already an incredible mother. Don't dwell on the things that happened that didn't go as planned and that were out of your control. You are safe, you are well, and you have a son. You are a warrior. We are over the moon for you and your family.  Motherhood is an amazing thing. A hard thing. But oh so worth it. We can't wait to watch your motherhood journey. Love & health to you and your family. ❤️⁠
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It's gonna get crazy up in here.⁠ 🧺 (Another It's gonna get crazy up in here.⁠ 🧺 (Another day in the life of quarantine/ motherhood...)⁠
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🧘‍♀️ Exercises You Should Do Before Givin 🧘‍♀️ Exercises You Should Do Before Giving Birth⁠ 🤰
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Pregnancy and birth are physically taxing events, but they can also be empowering experiences. 💪 Exercising during pregnancy can help the birth process go more smoothly as well as offer other incredible benefits: lowered stress, better posture, less back pain, and less complicated postpartum recovery. 🙌 Best of all, you’ll feel more powerful and in control of how your body is changing and growing. 💗 While most exercise is great even for pregnant women, there are some exercises you really should do before giving birth. Here is what you should do and WHY you should do it. {Click 🔗 in bio to continue reading!}⁠
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🗓️ Great Ways to Structure Days Spent at Home 🗓️ Great Ways to Structure Days Spent at Home⁠ 🏡⁠
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If you have kids of any age at home right now, you know by now that structure and routine can help any day go more smoothly. 🙌 Building good habits and activities into your daily routine can provide opportunities for educational learning, play, stress-reduction, nourishment and rest. ❤️ Certainly, not every day has to be structured. And it’s healthy to allow for spontaneity and free time when you’re home together with family. But if you’re looking for a roadmap to build a new daily routine with your children during this season of social distancing, read on for a few fresh ideas! These are some easy tips you can start to build a great structure to your days spent at home. ⁠{Click 🔗 in bio to continue reading!}⁠
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And this is truer now than ever before. 📷 from And this is truer now than ever before.
📷 from the hilarious @honestlymommy⁠
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👦 Potty Training the Montessori Way⁠ 🚽⁠ 👦 Potty Training the Montessori Way⁠ 🚽⁠
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Potty training can be one of the most challenging endeavors of your baby’s first few years. 😫 But this is a great time to get started if your little one is ready. Rest assured, there are several methods and strategies out there to set you and your baby up for success! 🙌 We decided to borrow some lessons from the Montessori philosophy and apply these lessons to potty training. While potty training the Montessori way may not be for everyone, many parents have used this method and loved it!⁠ Here's what we've learned and how it could help your family. {Click 🔗 in bio to continue reading!}⁠
📷: @curlylittledreams⁠
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The struggle is real. 😳⁠😬⁠ .⁠ #coronav The struggle is real. 😳⁠😬⁠
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🎒 8 Tips from a Homeschooling Mom⁠ 👩‍🏫⁠
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If you’re like many parents and caregivers right now whose children are suddenly home all day instead of at school, and you are now facing the prospect of a crash course in homeschooling, you may have said once (or a hundred times) I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I’M DOING!?!? 😰 You are not alone, I promise!⁠
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I have been homeschooling for years, and yet this pandemic has my family’s entire world turned upside down. We’ve been missing our library dates, ballet classes, afternoons at the playground, chess club, but most of all: our friends. My usually-somewhat-agreeable child has been downright combative and emotionally on-edge these past few days, poor thing. 😢 This quarantine is so hard on everyone, but especially our most vulnerable . . . which includes our children. {Click 🔗 in bio to continue reading about the hows and whys of homeschooling as well as this mama's great tips to help you and your child start learning at home!}⁠
Article by: Bree Von Lopez⁠
📷: @watsonhomestead⁠
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🎵 And IIII . . . . I must confess my hands are 🎵 And IIII . . . . I must confess my hands are clean⁠
When I'm not with you I save our lives⁠
Give me a siiiiign . . . hit my baby now online 🎶⁠
📷: unknown⁠
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🤰 10 Ways to Prepare Your Family and Home for B 🤰 10 Ways to Prepare Your Family and Home for Baby Number Two⁠ 👧👶
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Congratulations mama! You're pregnant with baby number two. 💗 How exciting! 🥳 I know, you probably have a ton of thoughts and questions racing through your mind like, "Am I REALLY ready for another baby?!" Or how about, "How do I prepare my family and home for baby number two?!"⁠ 😳
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They're all reasonable questions. However, I want you to remember something. Remember that you probably felt unsure about some things during your first pregnancy and guess what, YOU GOT THROUGH THEM! 💪 Here you are again and yes mama, YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS TOO!⁠ ❤️
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To help you ease some of those worries, we’re sharing 10 ways to prepare for baby number two!⁠ {Click 🔗 in bio to continue reading!}⁠
📸: @by.sofiehammer
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