Second Baby Guilt: How I Am Working Through It

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Second Baby Guilt: How I Am Working Through It

Note from the author: I’m getting a little bit deep and raw about something that’s personal to me: second baby guilt. There may even be a tad TMI here and there but hey, we’re all adults. My hope is that this article helps any moms out there that are struggling with the same issue to realize that it’s completely normal and you’re not alone because, after all, that’s what this platform is all about…inspiring, connecting, and uplifting each other. Thanks!

I’ve struggled with whether or not to write on this topic for a variety of reasons. Reasons like feeling guilty for feeling guilty. Or feeling like I’m throwing my “baby-making” success in the face of others who may be struggling. Fearing backlash from readers, friends, or family. And that big one of actually admitting these feelings to myself. That’s a hard one.

But then there are the reasons FOR writing on this topic: like having a therapeutic outlet for myself, seeking advice from moms who have walked the same road, and normalizing these feelings for those walking the same journey.

So here it goes. My big fat second baby guilt…and how I’m getting over it, slowly.

Second Baby Guilt

My husband and I knew we wanted our kiddos about 2 1/2 – 3 years apart. So it didn’t come as any surprise to me when we started having the conversation in the spring about when we would actually pull the goalie, so to speak. I got off birth control in March because my hormones were at a terrible imbalance causing everything from dramatic weight and muscle-mass loss (to the point where I had co-workers asking if I was sick). I also had headaches, dizziness, loss of libido and decreased energy.

We knew we needed to be careful after I stopped the birth control. It had only taken one shot at getting pregnant with our first and we had three incredibly special weddings coming up that I did NOT want to be sick during. (Okay, I also wanted to guzzle some champagne with my besties. Shame on me.)

To avoid an “oops baby” I began tracking my ovulation immediately with the app Ovuline. We made it to July, through the weddings and other random events I hadn’t wanted to miss out on, and then husband was ready to start trying. I’m not saying that I wasn’t ready, I was. I was just also beginning to feel an overwhelming sense of sadness. My son, Fischer, had been my everything for the past two years, I’d never felt so totally complete. But this is what we had planned, right? If I got pregnant in July the kids would be as close to our 2.5 year age difference as possible.

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My husband didn’t understand why I was hesitant. I told him I would like to wait until August. I thought I would be ready by then. Not to mention that I knew I was going to be out of town during the time I was supposed to ovulate so really I thought I had the perfect sabotage.

‘THOUGHT’ being the keyword, folks. We did the deed on July 3rd, the day before I left, and one week later I KNEW. Having been through a series of interesting ailments throughout my life and struggling with an autoimmune disorder that frequently strikes with a vengeance, I am particularly aware of the goings-on inside my body. So I just knew. Two weeks later, I saw the first of multiple pregnancy tests (only 4 this time! last time it was 9!). My husband was shocked, but should he have been? Probably not.

I cried. And cried. And cried some more. Honestly, they weren’t tears of joy. In fact, they weren’t tears of joy for some time and that PAINS me to write. I would never want this new baby to think that they weren’t wanted. Of course I should have been ECSTATIC about this new little life, the growing of our little tribe, the partner-in-crime for Fischer. But I couldn’t get over the feeling of loss that seems to go hand-in-hand with this addition. Funny, right? Adding and losing at the same time…it’s not supposed to work that way.

baby fischer

So what do I think I’m losing, exactly?

I guess my 100% commitment to Fischer, the maternal bond with my ONLY child. He’s been my whole world and my best little friend for the past two years. I couldn’t imagine loving someone else the way I love him and I fear there just isn’t enough to go around. He’s losing the spotlight and at 2 years old is so not ready to share my love. I fear that my child will resent me and I can’t even handle the thought of that.

For a couple weeks I was losing my mind with grief. For his birthday every year I vowed to write a letter in his little journal that I had made especially for that reason. Last year the pages were stained with tears at the realization my baby was turning one. This year, the hot tears of guilt left streaky pen marks. Oy. I hope one day we look back and laugh.

I tried talking to my husband about this but he didn’t get it. They never seem to understand these things. Luckily, two of my very best friends had just recently become second time moms and so I reached out to them. In fact, I had reached out to them months ago to voice my fears and concerns and I was relieved to hear that they had gone through the same sorts of emotions.

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But I was happy to hear how the additions to each of their families were NOT a loss but a huge, huge gain. They told me there was more than enough space in their hearts to welcome this second little love. And that they adored seeing the first sibling accept the second. They told me their families became even MORE “complete” when they laid eyes and hands on their new little person.

baby Fischer

And yet they were also brutally honest about the changes and I thank them for that. (And for the continued harping I’ve been doing about this transition.) Yes, you’ll lose time with your first baby and it’s hard for them to understand. Yes, you’ll feel guilty about it. But in those moments, guess who gets to step up? Daddy. My friends told me that to see the bond grow between their partner and child was something altogether more special. Yes, it’s hard to manage schedules with two babies and it’ll drive you a little batty. In this way your first baby suffers a little bit too because sometimes you’ll be too exhausted to go to the park. Yes, you’ll forget to take one million photos of the poor second child. Yes, you’ll be dead tired with the round-the-clock feedings for the new baby and trying to keep up with the high energy toddler. This went on and on.

But, and they’ve both been emphatic with this BUT, your heart will swell all over again and you won’t be able to imagine life without BOTH little loves.

baby fischer

So, where does that leave me?

It took us a few weeks to begin telling people we were expecting again. Our friends and family were obviously so excited for us. I wanted to be excited too and didn’t want to fake it. So, until I had begun to reconcile my feelings we kept the news close. At 6 weeks and 4 days we had our first prenatal appointment and (thankfully) heard the heart beat. I was able to capture this on video and even got Fischer to say “Baby” at the exact right moment. I think it was after this that my heart started to make a turn and I actively began to imagine life as a family of four instead of three.

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At our next appointment I was by myself and got to see an amazing ultrasound of a very, VERY active little Brussels Sprout (the current size). I cried like a baby. This time they were tears of JOY. I sent the video to husband first, then to quite a few other people and they all shared in the happiness and welcomed anticipation I felt and continue to feel.

fischer

Do I still feel guilty?

Sure, sometimes. Okay, a lot of times. Hey! It’s still pretty new!

When Fischer and I are cuddled in his chair reading books and I know it won’t be long before this belly is too big to snuggle so tight, I get sad. And then I remember that one day he’ll fit again. When he begs to be held and I know that my hands will be full with someone else, I get sad. And then I think that at times there will be space for me to hold BOTH my babies. When he cries out for me and I know that I can’t go running because someone else will have my attention, I get sad. And then I know that daddy will be there to run instead and that their bond will grow strong. (Okay, that one tugs at my heart in a way that makes me a little sad.)

When Fischer doesn’t understand that he has to share the spotlight, I get sad. And then I realize (and hope) that there will be double the FUN in the spotlight for Fischer and his best pal. I also know that as Fischer grows up he’s also growing away and will need me less and less in the way he needs me now. That realization is both a comfort (for the current situation) and a complete nightmare as I never want my baby to grow up!

And then I wonder how can I feel THAT guilty when I know how much spoiling will be done between now and March? Let’s hope Fischer doesn’t end up TOO rotten at the end of this because I see a lot of trips to the zoo/museums/toy store/ice cream shop/pet store/etc. in his future!

family of (now) four

Our first “selfie” as a family of four!

So, THANK YOU, friends, for letting me vent and share this. Again, it was a struggle for a lot of reasons. As mom’s we are supposed to be “super human,” right? And super humans don’t harbor these types of feelings. But, well, we AREN’T super human and we DO have a huge range of emotions, each one as valid as the next. If you’re in the same boat as me let yourself go through it. The grief, the excitement, the anxiety. All of it, because it’s 100% normal.

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Lanie is a wife, mother to her two boys, and has a huge passion for maternal health, nutrition, and fitness.

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Even though COVID-19 is a novel virus, experts say that we can still use products that the Environmental Protection Agency lists as effective on killing similar viruses, like the rhinovirus or common cold. And when we halt the spread of germs in our own home, we are doing our part to keep our communities healthy, too.⁠ {Click 🔗 in bio to continue reading!}⁠
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Thankful that takeout is still available. 🙏 Thi Thankful that takeout is still available. 🙏 This is what self-care now looks like. 😂⁠
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No one’s at your party because it’s called soc No one’s at your party because it’s called social distancing, bro. That and no one cares. 🤷‍♀️ #quarantineday6 😂⁠
📷: @scarymommy⁠
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Cool 😒⁠ .⁠ #coronavirus #covid19 #nsync #qu Cool 😒⁠
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❤️❤️❤️❤️⁠ Quote via @thismessygr ❤️❤️❤️❤️⁠
Quote via @thismessygrace 🙏
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Quarantine Day 5 . . . May your coffee be strong a Quarantine Day 5 . . . May your coffee be strong and your baby's nap be long. 🙏☕😴⁠
📷: @julieejacks⁠
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😫😫😫⁠ .⁠ #coronavirus #covid19 #quaran 😫😫😫⁠
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🏥 When is it Too Late to Change Your Doctor Dur 🏥 When is it Too Late to Change Your Doctor During Pregnancy? 👩‍⚕️⁠
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A major decision that you must make in your pregnancy is who is going to be your care provider to help you give birth to your baby. Are you going to go with your current OBGYN, are you going to look for a different OB, are you going to choose a midwife? Depending on where and how you want to give birth to your baby, this question and your options should become more clear. But if you're seeing some red flags pop up 🚩 with your current provider during your pregnancy, you might be wondering if it's too late to change your doctor.⁠ 😬 We're talking about it today on baby-chick.com! {Click 🔗 in bio to continue reading!}⁠
📷: @mamamatcha_⁠
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🎶 Sunny day ☀️ Sweeping the clouds away ☁ 🎶 Sunny day ☀️ Sweeping the clouds away ☁️⁠
🎶 On my way to where the air is at best, questionably clean 😷⁠
🎶 Can you tell me how to get, how to get a COVID-19 screen?⁠
🎶 Don’t come over to play, everyone’s social distancing today 🚫⁠
🎶 Sketchy neighbors can stay at least 6 feet away? 🚷⁠
🎶 Can you tell me how to get, how to get a COVID-19 screen?⁠
📷: @howtobeadad⁠
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It'll be interesting to see how all of this change It'll be interesting to see how all of this changes us in the future. But for now, we are uniting #togetherapart. We are healing and our hope is we will then be stronger than ever. ❤️⁠
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🧘‍♀️ How to Reset Your Motherhood Mindset 🧘‍♀️ How to Reset Your Motherhood Mindset⁠ 😊⁠
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Motherhood can be the most rewarding and amazing experience in the world. 😍 But, it can also be one of the hardest. 😖 It’s easy for the stress of mom life to become overwhelming. If you’re working, you somehow have to juggle a work schedule and job demands, in addition to fulfilling expectations at home. 🤹‍♀️ If you’re a stay-at-home mom, it can be all too easy to surround yourself with the pressures and stress of motherhood, and forget to ever come up for a breath. 😰 For me, when that stress starts to bubble over, it really affects my relationship with my husband and my kids. When I start to feel like this, I know it's time to reset my motherhood mindset.⁠ 🧘‍♀️ {Click 🔗 in bio to continue reading!}⁠
Article by: Lisa Prosser⁠
📷: @liaeverette⁠
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When you have to suction their nose during cold an When you have to suction their nose during cold and flu season. 😂😷⁠
📷: @perfectionpending⁠
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🧼 Cleaning Tips and Tricks for Busy Moms 🧹⁠
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As a busy mom, I have a whole lot going on at any given moment. 🤹‍♀️ Sometimes, I'm not able to keep my house as clean as I like. 😬 But I have found that I’m much happier when my house is clean and organized, so I try to dedicate some time to getting the job done. I’ve found that following these ten cleaning tips and tricks makes things much easier for a busy mom to maintain (and keeps a whole lot happier!).⁠ 🙌 {Click 🔗 in bio to continue reading and see our tips!}⁠
Article by: @flake.lauren⁠
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I mean, can you blame us?! 😍😂⁠ 📷: @momf I mean, can you blame us?! 😍😂⁠
📷: @momfriendblog⁠
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Absolutely true. 💚🍀 Happy St. Patrick's Day! Absolutely true. 💚🍀 Happy St. Patrick's Day!⁠
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☀️ Warm Weather Wardrobe Refresh 😎⁠ .⁠ ☀️ Warm Weather Wardrobe Refresh 😎⁠
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The temperatures are rising and Spring is almost here! If you're not sure how to transition things in your closet with the new season and you're looking for some pieces to welcome the warmer weather, we've got you covered. Consider this your warm-weather wardrobe refresh. 🙌 {Click 🔗 in bio for our tips and for new Spring pieces!}⁠
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Such a sweet pregnancy announcement. 😍 To all t Such a sweet pregnancy announcement. 😍 To all the lucky babies out there . . . you're magically a dream come true. 🌈💕⁠
📷: @isisallmiightyy⁠
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😧 Common Concerns of New Parents (And How to Ha 😧 Common Concerns of New Parents (And How to Handle Them)⁠ 👍⁠
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You waited months and months for this big moment. 🤰 The day you get to meet your bundle of joy and bring him or her home. 👶 Once you're home, you're quickly overtaken by common concerns many new parents have! Wondering how often you should be feeding your new baby? Did they tell you when your baby can have his or her first bath? 🤔⁠
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Don't worry. You're NOT alone! In fact, it's natural to be feeling a little unsure about this whole parenting thing right about now (I know I did!). 😬 So to help you out, we're going to break down some of the common concerns of new parents AND how to handle them!⁠ {Click 🔗 in bio to continue reading!}⁠
Article by: @fitmommystrong⁠
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I like to live on the wild side. 😎 In light of I like to live on the wild side. 😎
In light of the Coronavirus, we do hope that everyone is staying home and stay safe. While taking kids out in general can be crazy 🤪 this is not the time to be taking risks. We hope everyone is staying healthy and happy. 🙏💕
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