Taking Care of YOU Postpartum & Not Losing Sight of Yourself

By Nina Spears

The Baby Chick® & CEO of Baby Chick®

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Nina Spears is the Co-Founder & CEO of Baby Chick, an online go-to resource for all things motherhood and the Founder & CEO of Bassett Baby Planning, the premier doula agency and resource center in Houston, TX for expecting and new mothers. Read More

You’ve just had your baby. Congratulations!!! You are now in (what we call) the fourth trimester, which is the postpartum period. The postpartum period begins after the birth of your baby and is the first 3 months/12 weeks of your baby’s life. This is the time when mothers learn about their babies, discover their new role as a parent (or becoming a 2nd time parent, etc.), and fall deeply in love with their new little one.

Then the long days and nights come rolling in…

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The demands of caring for a newborn become nonstop and often times cause mothers to forget about caring for themselves. They are so busy caring for their babies (and rightfully so) that they put their own needs aside. Yes, being a mother is a full-time job that requires sacrifice, but mothers should never stop caring for their own needs. As they say, you need to put on your own oxygen mask first before you can help others around you. And that’s exactly what I want to talk about today. It’s time that mothers start putting themselves on their own priority list and recognize that they need to take the time to give themselves a little TLC as they care for their wee-ones and not feeling guilty. Just because you are now a mother doesn’t mean you should lose sight of yourself.

Since the postpartum period can be such a fragile and emotional time, we have to remember that mothers are going through many changes, both emotionally and physically. She needs to take care of herself to recover and rebuild her strength and recognize that she will need some help and support. Here are some things to help mothers take better care of themselves throughout their postpartum journeys.

Rest

We all know that newborns sleep at crazy hours and in spurts. Their internal clocks have not adjusted yet to being in the outside world. A typical newborn wakes up about every two to three hours and needs to be fed, changed, burped, and/or comforted each time. The demands of doing the same thing over and over all day and all night can become overwhelming and exhausting for anyone. This is why it’s important to find ways throughout your day (and night) to catch up on some much needed rest so that you can feel more like a human and less like a zombie, or should I say, mombie. Here are some tips that may be helpful in finding ways to get more rest.

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Nutrition

Now that you’ve had a baby, your body has gone through a lot and needs to recover from pregnancy and childbirth. In order to promote healthy healing and recovery, a healthy diet is essential. Most lactation experts will add that breastfeeding mothers need to take particular care in what they feed their bodies and add an additional 500 healthy calories to their diet.

Eating well obviously isn’t simple. It requires planning, especially when you are out of your normal routine. Mothers can get so overwhelmed and exhausted caring for their newborn and/or their family that dinner is sometimes completely forgotten about. Before you know it you could be skipping meals and living straight off coffee. (You’re not alone!)

A healthy diet during the postpartum period should be a series of balanced meals and plenty of fluids and they should consist of six key elements – grains, vegetables, fruits, dairy, protein and healthy fats. To help you with this, make use of salads, smoothies and veggie snacks, and be sure to sit down to eat. If you aren’t good at planning out your meals, ask for friends and families to bring over some healthy options. Setting up a meal train can be so helpful with all of this!

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Consult your health care provider or a registered dietitian if you want to learn more about postpartum nutrition. Certified lactation consultants can also help with advice about nutrition while breastfeeding.

Exercise

There are many benefits of exercise when living with a newborn. It can give you increased energy levels, improved sleep, better immunity and feel good hormones to help you fight off everyday stresses. What mama doesn’t want that?! But exercising doesn’t have to take up hours of your day. Even 10 minutes of good exercise will produce a whole range of positive results.

Exercising with a newborn can mean going for a walk with baby in a sling or carrier, jogging with the stroller, or enrolling in an exercise class that involves your baby. Fit4Mom classes are great! But if you prefer to exercise on your own, here are some options:

Put on an exercise DVD at home and get a quick workout in with baby
Go for a walk or jog with your baby or go before your partner leaves for work or after he/she comes back home
Join a gym that offers a safe and trusted babysitting service or
Go to a health club that offers mom and baby classes
Practice yoga at a studio or at home
Invest in some home equipment, or at least some weights and elastic bands

Mental Health

When you are doing the same things day in and day out taking care of another human life with very little sleep, it can be very difficult to keep hold of your sanity. To some people, it doesn’t sound like feeding, changing diapers, soothing a baby, and caring for a baby is all that much, but it can be a lot more than they realize. Here are some ways to look after your mental health:

Join a support group to meet other new parents – it’s nice to be able to get out of the house and meet other mothers who are in the exact same stage that you’re in.
Express both your negative and positive experiences to trusted support people
Take breaks with your partner and with friends
Take regular trips out on your own: manis and pedis, massages, etc.
Find a quiet place to reflect sometime during the day
Close your eyes and practice slow, deep breathing
Watch some favorite movies or read a favorite book

It’s good to continue these things long after the postpartum period. They help you feel happier and healthier which then helps you be the best parent you can be.

A Helping Hand

Although many parents do fine on their own, having someone else come in to help with the responsibilities around the house usually makes the adjustment to a new baby a whole lot easier. Helpers can be family, friends, housekeepers or postpartum doulas. A family member such as the new baby’s grandmother or aunt may be able to come for a few days or longer to help! If you are needing more of a professional’s help for longer time, housekeepers and postpartum doulas can offer a variety of services.

The postpartum time can be tough. I hope this list helps you or a friend take the time that you need to take care of you. Because your baby needs a healthy mama. What are some things that you did for you during the postpartum time? Any tips? I’d love to hear what was helpful for you!