My Journey to Motherhood

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My Journey to Motherhood

My journey to motherhood began like most of you. I looked down at a pregnancy test and saw a positive sign. And did not believe what I saw. I sat back down on the toilet and just stared. My body felt weak. And tingly. My first thought was, “Wow. So that’s how it happens. This little tiny test just told me that a baby has begun growing inside of ME? Is that really it? Is it really real?” I didn’t believe it. So, of course, I went and bought four more tests. Because two, three, or four positive tests were not enough to confirm it was true for me. After the fifth positive result, I was convinced.

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I. Am. PREGNANT!!!!!

At the time I found out I was expecting my first child, we were not trying for children. I was in the middle of an intense two-year Master’s program in Marriage and Family Therapy that was not a start and stop program. So it was a little scary how I would balance it all. But I believed that God knew that was JUST the time He wanted our first son to enter the world. And my shock quickly turned into elation.

When I called my husband at work, I just plainly said, “Uh, babe. I just took a pregnancy test. And it says I’m pregnant?!!”

To which he responded, “This is good. This is good. Now go buy fruit.”

And I was like, ”Wait, what?!”

To which he once again said, “Go buy fruit.”

At that point, I decided he must be talking in code. So I sat and tried to decode what he “really” meant for the hours until he arrived home. But once he arrived and hugged me he said, “No, there was no mystery code. I just wanted you to eat something healthy for the baby.” We still laugh about the fruit thing to this day. (For the record, in keeping with my sweet tooth, I did not buy fruit that afternoon. I think I ate a chocolate bar instead. And my oldest son still loves chocolate to this day.)

The beginning of the journey.

From that point on, my pregnancy journey began like so many others. We immediately and creatively told our families. Since we found out December 27, we came up with fibs to have them drive to our house two hours away after we had JUST been with them for Christmas so we could tell them in person. And both moms immediately cried!

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The start of Pregnancy

At week 6, I began to feel nauseous. I began to gain weight. I began to feel tired. So desperately tired I could not believe it. But after the first trimester, my symptoms subsided. But I still wasn’t showing. Then around week 18, my belly bump popped. And from that point on my body began to take pregnancy very seriously. I gained 43 pounds total (the same amount with each of my sons) and swelled up to look unrecognizable. Particularly my nose. I like to say I gained my pregnancy weight in my nose.

By week 30, my cute baby bump looked like a torpedo in my stomach. And I had heartburn so badly, my eyes would just flood water while I was seeing clients and they would ask me if I was getting emotional. I’d just politely say, “No, I’m just having heartburn. Please continue with your story and try not to mind the tears streaming down my face over here.” And they obliged me. And then would ask me the same thing the following session.

To be honest, I am one of those women who does not love pregnancy. I feel and look so unlike my normal self, which is strange for me. But to stay strong, I focus on the fact that I have LIFE growing inside of me. And what an amazing miracle that is. I also try to avoid the mirror and scale.

scary belly

Labor started, and life forever changed.

For the last month before my due date, my anticipation grew and grew and grew. I so desperately wanted to go into labor and meet my little amazing baby boy! But it just wouldn’t happen. I felt like I would be pregnant forever.

One day in August 2008, five days before my due date, I woke up to mild cramping. But I did not think a thing about it. I just went to go see clients and it continued through my first two clients of the day. After going home early, I called my hubby at work and told him I was canceling my clients for the night. He immediately said, “You’re in labor.” But I insisted I was not. I just wanted to take it easy and not add stress to a client by delivering a baby in session.

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My contractions continued throughout the day but didn’t seem to be getting much more intense or consistent until around 8 pm. I decided to have my husband time them and sure enough, they were five minutes apart consistently. I took a shower while he got other stuff ready and the contractions began to get painful. My Dad came to get our dog as we headed to the hospital at 11 pm. As he drove up I said, “Don’t worry. I don’t think this is the real thing.”

I stopped and couldn’t talk because it hurt so badly, then continued, “But we’ll call you.” Then I began throwing up all over my yard. To which my Dad looked at my husband and said. “She’s in labor. See you at the hospital.”

Our son is born!

Sure enough, when I arrived at the hospital I was dilated to four centimeters. I continued progressing with little pain, which was good because I had decided to have my son naturally. The resident came in and checked me after about 2 hours and told me I was at a 9. And I looked over at my hubby and said, “If this is all it feels like, I’m easily going to be able to do this.”

Then the real doctor came in and said, “You’re only at a 7, sweetie. I don’t know what the resident was doing telling you that you were at a 9.” And no sooner had he walked out of the room and my contractions felt like someone turned up the dial about 100 percent. Suddenly, the pain hit. And I was desperate. And not enjoying my life. To put it nicely.

I hung out in a tub through the transition period, then told my husband and mom I needed to get out of the bathtub to use the restroom. My mom who had worked in labor and delivery for 10 years told me that I was likely ready to push. And sure enough I was.

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After about 15 minutes of pushing, my son was born! I held him for about 1 minute then felt like I was so weak, I had to hand him back to my husband, which was not the memory I had hoped for. I will spare you the details of how much I enjoyed natural childbirth. And just leave it at this: I chose to use epidurals with my next two deliveries. And the first thing I told my sister when she walked up to congratulate me was, “Get drugs.”

Those first precious moments are what I dreamed about.

After about 15 minutes, I felt more recovered and was able to take my son again. I breastfed him and held him. I had the first memory I had hoped for throughout pregnancy. And it was wonderful. And it was magical. Honestly, it was the sweetest thing I’ve ever experienced.

For the next two weeks after he was born, I cannot think of a time I felt so happy. (I experienced the same thing after my other two sons, too.) It’s like this beautiful time in life where you finally have what you’ve waited for, for so long. And I could not get enough of him! I would tear up when he would leave the room. And honestly, I stayed on a baby high for the first year of motherhood. I was simply joyful. Despite being sleep deprived.

my angel

My son has changed me.

His birth, his life, was the start to my journey of motherhood. From the moment I first took the test, there was no looking back. I was my baby’s mommy. And that baby was mine. And there is nothing I love more.

Motherhood has grown me in ways I never imagined. Been pushed further than I ever thought possible. And celebrated things I never knew would make me happy (Everybody clap! He just peed in the potty!!).

My sons are my inspiration for all I do. Before becoming one, the title—MOMMY—did not seem super glamorous. But once I had him, once I had them, I cannot think of a title I love more. And I cannot thank God enough for the privilege. Or for the craziness that ensues on this journey through motherhood. Because if there were no crazy, there would be no them.

THE BOYS AND I

About the Author /

Quinn is a wife, boy mom (x’s 4), blogger at Sanctification and Spitup, host of the Renew You Podcast and licensed marriage and family therapist. She loves to encourage others in relationships through her speaking, writing or podcast episodes.

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Sure, your provider loves to fawn over your sweet baby, but this appointment is about mom. How are YOU doing? Self-care is so important to your health and recovery after having a baby, so let this appointment focus on your well-being. 😊⁠
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Here are 10 helpful questions to ask when you see your provider at your 6-week postpartum check up. 📝 Your provider will likely cover most or all of these topics on her or his own, but use this as a guide to remind you to ask anything she or he doesn’t cover! {Click 🔗 in bio to read more!}⁠
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“I breastfed my first child so I knew I wanted to #breastfeed again. People were skeptical about me #breastfeeding triplets, and this drove my determination! 💪 My boys were born at 29+3 and therefore it was so important for them to have #breastmilk! 🤱
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After having an emergency C-section, I knew there was no time to rest, so I started hand expressing within the first hour. I set an alarm to ensure that I expressed every 2 hours during the day and every 3 hours overnight. ⏰
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Being separated from my boys was hard so having pictures/video links helped whilst I expressed. Seeing my teeny, vulnerable babies in their little incubators drove my determination to provide them with my milk! I also rotated muslin squares between us so that I could smell them and vice versa. This also helped me whilst I expressed during the night away from my boys. Their smell on the swaddles kept me focused! 💙
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Twice during our #NICU journey my boys were split between hospitals over an hour apart! This was the hardest time and meant I was separated from 2 of my boys for a couple of days. During this time I kept up with expressing and ensured that all three of them had enough milk to take with them until we were all reunited.
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Looking back I feel it is my sheer determination that has really enabled me to successfully breastfeed my triplet boys! Not once have they needed donor or formula milk. It required a massive commitment both physically and emotionally but I am so proud of my achievement! My boys are now 11 months and are still breastfeeding." ❤️
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*This story is not to bring any mothers down that choose to formula feed. (I, personally, had to give my son formula at 7 months old!) We share this mother's story to inspire mothers and celebrate our victories! ✨
If you are having breastfeeding struggles and want to succeed, contact a good local IBCLC and receive support. Find new mom friends who are also breastfeeding who can encourage you. And if you choose to formula feed, we honor you too. 💕 #mommychick
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🧠 4 Ways to Promote Your Child's Mental Health 🧠 4 Ways to Promote Your Child's Mental Health 🧠⁠
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Your child’s mental health is fairly complicated. It's also critical to their overall health and wellness. We often think of mental health as it pertains to adults, but just like growth and physical development, research shows that mental health is something that should be considered starting at birth. ❤️⁠
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When children are very young, their brains are extremely sensitive to environmental stress. Toxic stress, defined as high levels of prolonged stress, can have life-long effects on children. Limiting stress for young children is critical for their early mental health. One of the most fundamental ways we can help eliminate toxic stress is by building a strong relationship foundation from the very beginning of their lives. Your relationship with your baby is an integral part of their sense of self-esteem, independence, and confidence; three key factors in mental health.⁠
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Building that relationship with your child can be broken down into four key concepts . . . {Click 🔗 in bio to find out what they are!}⁠
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💤 Good Bedtime Routines for Babies of Every Age 💤 Good Bedtime Routines for Babies of Every Age 💤⁠
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If you’ve ever typed into Google, “Why won’t my baby sleep?” you’re not alone. In fact, you’re among thousands of other parents/caregivers who are likely as tired as you are. Chances are, if you have gone down the Google rabbit hole at 2:00 a.m. (or just asked your pediatrician for sleep advice), then you’ve most likely been introduced to the concept of a bedtime routine.⁠
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A bedtime routine can be an incredibly helpful tool in establishing healthy sleep habits and good sleep hygiene. Infants and young children thrive on routine; in fact, they are comforted by predictability (spoiler alert: most adults are this way, too!). Plus, a young mind is exposed to so much new information every day that it’s reassuring for a child to know that they can depend on certain events to have a predictable structure.⁠
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Bedtime routines are also a cue to their brains and bodies that sleep is coming. With a predictable bedtime routine, your little one will start to recognize the order of the routine and begin to anticipate what comes next. With enough repetition, this process happens automatically in a very Pavlovian way. A calm and successive routine will also make the onset of sleep come more easily. Can you imagine if you walked out of your workout and immediately someone told you that you had to lay down and fall asleep? This would be nearly impossible, and the same is true for our little ones. By allowing them some time to unwind, you are making the falling asleep process that much easier. Here are some tips on what to do for your little one's bedtime. ❤️⁠ {Click 🔗 in bio to read more!}⁠
📷: @hannahxruth⁠
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🤗 7 Tips for Raising Secure and Happy Kids 🤗 🤗 7 Tips for Raising Secure and Happy Kids 🤗⁠
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Parenting is hard. And ever so important. But sometimes it feels like we need to have a special degree in “Managing Toddler Mood Swings” to navigate some of the unexpected scenarios that come with raising secure and happy children.⁠
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Like how do we handle a child that likes to scream instead of talk?⁠
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It can feel tricky and tiring to try and do it all right and then sometimes still feel like you’re at a loss. But the truth is, there’s never any way to make everything perfect. But there are things we can do that set our children up to feel secure and happy. And here are seven of my favorite tips. {Click 🔗 in bio to read more!}⁠
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Any oldie but goodie by @spiritysol⁠. ❤️⁠ Any oldie but goodie by @spiritysol⁠. ❤️⁠
Cesarean mamas--this one's for you. I hope you know that you are worthy. That you are such a warrior. That you are brave and powerful and strong as f✨ck. I hope you know that birthing your baby on an operating table makes you no less of a mother. No less of a goddess. Your birth story is holy and that beautiful scar on your belly is sacred as sh✨t. You are worthy of praise and celebration, honor and  admiration.⁠
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I hope that you know it was worth it. Knowing this does NOT mean you can't mourn your dream. It does NOT mean "you and your baby are safe--that's all that matters!" It does NOT mean you can't wish things had gone differently. But I hope that underneath it all, you can find beauty in what was. What is. Your baby. Your birth. Your strength. Your healing. Your story.⁠
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Your journey wasn't easy. Perhaps it unfolded much differently than you had hoped--perhaps it shook you to your core and left you feeling the immense weight of a "what if" and why".⁠
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Perhaps you're still wading through the heavy emotions of disappointment, anger, and grief. Perhaps you always will. But whatever feelings you hold in your heart and in your womb, I hope that you can look at your scar and say "Hell yes, it was worth it. And hell ya, I am worthy."⁠
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*This post was written for mamas who might be struggling with an unexpected or undesired cesarean birth. I recognize that there are mamas that choose to have planned/elective cesarean births who might not resonate with the message in this post. I honor them as well--as I honor all mothers, all women, and all beings.⁠
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Because I gave him the wrong colored cup . . . whi Because I gave him the wrong colored cup . . . which is the color he originally asked for.⁠
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" . . . Tears contain stress hormones. Why would w " . . . Tears contain stress hormones. Why would we have tears if they didn't serve a purpose? Little hurts can feel big when you are little. There is no such things as no reason to cry. Comforting a crying child is not the same as shutting them down, no matter how sweetly we shut them down . . . up actually." - Pam Leo⁠
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"Every diaper change is a struggle⁠ Goldfish cru "Every diaper change is a struggle⁠
Goldfish crumbs are literally everywhere.⁠
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Dramatic meltdowns are a part of our daily routine.⁠
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Being a mother to a new toddler is so challenging, and every day I'm not sure what to expect! But, even on the days where I think I'm going nuts, it's so worth getting to watch my daughter grow into her own person. I love seeing her personality expand with each day.⁠
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I won't lie though, I do get a tad bit freaked out sometimes! I mean I've never heard anyone nail the sound of a pterodactyl better than my daughter, when she's having a meltdown. 😂😳"⁠
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Share your worst/funniest toddler meltdown stories below! I'm sure almost all of us mamas who have a toddler can relate. 🙋⁠
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That's my kind of mom friend. 😂 Tag that mama w That's my kind of mom friend. 😂 Tag that mama who is your happy safe person. ❤️⁠
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8 Ways to Beat the Winter Blues When You're Stuck 8 Ways to Beat the Winter Blues When You're Stuck Inside⁠
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⁠When the snow first starts falling, it’s a great feeling. Your house is cozy inside, school is cancelled—three cheers for a snow day! The kids are excited and you can’t help but feel some excitement, too. However, after a few days of being snowed in, we can all start to get a bit stir crazy, especially with our littles cooped up at home with us. We're sharing eight creative ways to beat those winter blues when you feel like you’re stuck indoors! {Click 🔗 in bio to continue reading!}⁠
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Where do I sign up for my parenting punchcard? 🙋‍♀️⁠
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Whatever you gotta do to get in some self care, ma Whatever you gotta do to get in some self care, mama. 💁‍♀️😂⁠
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But in 2020 🤔🤔🤔😂😂😂😂⁠ jk
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Having your baby look like their dad is like being Having your baby look like their dad is like being back in school when you did all the work in a group project and they got the higher grade. 😑⁠ Annoying AF.⁠
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Who do your kids look more like?⁠
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When you announcement to the kids that you're expe When you announcement to the kids that you're expecting another little one and one of your children asks where babies come from. 😳 This is when you starting thinking about when and how you need to start talking about the "birds and the bees" with your kids.⁠
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Talking about sex with anyone can be weird. But having the sex talk with your kid . . . well, that's a whole new level of weird. Some parents try to avoid having "the talk" for as long as humanly possible. While other parents jump right in at the first hint of their child's curiosity. Some parents find the topic relatively easy to discuss, while others are humiliated just thinking about it. 🙈 No matter where you fall on this wide spectrum, one fact remains: someone has to teach your child about sex. And it should probably be you.⁠
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So where do you start? How do you talk about it? And when? Of course, there are no right or wrong answers to these questions. Each parent will broach this subject in they way they feel is best. But if you're like me and need a bit of guidance, here are some tips for teaching your kids about the birds and the bees. {Click 🔗 in bio to read more!}⁠
📷: @livvylandblog⁠
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Every boy mom wants to be like WTF . . . For real, Every boy mom wants to be like WTF . . . For real, are they rotating sprinklers or something?⁠
📷: @snarkybreeders⁠
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#boymom #momofboys #momlife #dadlife #boymomlife #momsofinstagram #pottytraining #motherhoodthroughinstagram #motherhood #momstruggles #momprobs #mumlife #mommylife #parenthood #motherhoodunplugged #realmoms #momstatus #thatmomlife #realmomlife #momhumor #motherhoodrising #ig_motherhood #uniteinmotherhood⁣ #babychick⁣ #mommychick
They are the ultimate weighted blanket. Their litt They are the ultimate weighted blanket. Their little body breathing in and out while lying on your chest is intoxicating. It fills you with so much love and peace. There is truly nothing better. 💕⁠
(quote via @torturedbytoddlers)⁠
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Mindful Eating Tips After Baby - Podcast Episode 2 Mindful Eating Tips After Baby - Podcast Episode 23⁠
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The holidays can be a hectic and stressful time for many (especially moms). And on top of that, this time of year can be loaded with diet talk. 🤦‍♀️ You're not alone if all this talk about weight loss/gain, New Year's diet plans & the justification/shaming of eating XYZ is getting to you! It is to me too. Another time in life when women feel like they should shred some weight . . . after they have a baby. 🤰 While I'm not about women feeling they should change their postpartum bodies--our bodies have done so much for us and our babies and we are beautiful exactly the way we are--I am supportive of women wanting to nurture and take care of their bodies and living more mindfully. ❤️⁠
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I had the chance to chat with @drsusanalbers on our podcast about mindful eating, what it is, and how (and why) new mothers might want to incorporate this practice into their lives. Let's combat the diet culture this time of year and focus more on living and eating mindfully. {Click 🔗 in bio to listen to the episode!}⁠
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#mindfuleating #postpartum #newmom #wellness #health #intuitiveeating #bodypositive #bodylove #consciouseating #mindfulness #motherhood #momlife #4thtrimester #fourthtrimester #bodypositivity #fitmom #selflove #4thtribodies #fourthtribodies #everybodyisbeautiful #postnatal #babychick #mommychick
So. Many. Pump. Parts. Raise your hand if you agre So. Many. Pump. Parts. Raise your hand if you agree. 🙋‍♀️⁠
📷: @susu.stash⁠
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#motherhoodthroughinstagram #momlife #motherhood #momstruggles #momprobs #mumlife #mommylife #parenthood #motherhoodunplugged #realmoms #momstatus #thatmomlife #realmomlife #momsofinstagram #momhumor #motherhoodrising #ig_motherhood #uniteinmotherhood⁣ #babychick⁣ #mommychick #breastfeeding #nursing #breastpump #pumpingmom #pumpingmama #breastmilk
Motherhood and The Enneagram: Parenting Tips by Ty Motherhood and The Enneagram: Parenting Tips by Type⁠
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Knowing your Enneagram type is a lot of fun and can really bring some insight into how you act and react to other types and situations. The Enneagram differs from other personality typing systems because it encourages growth and identifies healthy and unhealthy behaviors within each of the nine types. Learning about yourself in this way is also a really great way to grow (or perhaps change for the better) as a parent. And we all could use good growth and change, right?⁠
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If you know your Enneagram type, we're sharing the parenting advice you probably need to hear. ❤️ {Click on 🔗 to continue reading!}⁠
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#motherhoodthroughinstagram #momlife #motherhood #momstruggles #momprobs #mumlife #mommylife #parenthood #parenting #parentlife #enneagram #parentingenneagram #motherhoodunplugged #realmoms #momstatus #thatmomlife #realmomlife #momsofinstagram #momhumor #motherhoodrising #ig_motherhood #uniteinmotherhood⁣ #babychick⁣ #mommychick
My rendition of Goodnight Moon. 😂⁠ 📷: unkn My rendition of Goodnight Moon. 😂⁠
📷: unknown⁠
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It's like he turns into the Hulk when I change his It's like he turns into the Hulk when I change his diaper. 🤦‍♀️⁠
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It's not just the toddlers who hate pants. 🙋‍ It's not just the toddlers who hate pants. 🙋‍♀️🤣⁠
📷: @humanitarianmom⁠
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Thank God they’re cute. 😂😂 📷: unknown . Thank God they’re cute. 😂😂
📷: unknown
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Finish this caption: THE FACE YOU MAKE WHEN . . . Finish this caption:
THE FACE YOU MAKE WHEN . . .
📷: @makelleahlin.and.thelostboys
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Say it louder for the people in the back! 🗣️⁠
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Every baby is different and so is every family. As long as we are meeting our babies' needs, trying our best and giving them our love, that is all that we can do. Only you know your family's circumstances and your baby's individual needs. Listen to your intuition and parent the way you feel is right for your family. No explantations needed. ❤️⁠
📷: @momsgotink⁠
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This year (and moving forward) let's make it a poi This year (and moving forward) let's make it a point to surround ourselves with positive relationships and pledge to keep toxic people out of our lives⁠. 🙅‍♀️ It's good to have the heart to forgive others (we all make mistakes) but also have the backbone to recognize when something is unhealthy and is continuously hurting you. Remember, we become who we surround ourselves with. Let's be surrounded by love. ❤️⁠
(quote via @universe.inside.you)
5 Tips to Get Better Sleep This Year 💤⁠ .⁠ 5 Tips to Get Better Sleep This Year 💤⁠
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The gifts have been opened, the sparklers have faded, and the holidays have officially come to an end. While this time of year can feel pretty depressing for many of us, I love turning the page onto a new calendar year. It’s a great opportunity to reflect – both personally and professionally – on the last year and set new goals and intentions for the year ahead. One thing I know for sure is that no matter what your goals are for the new year, getting better sleep is going to help you crush them.⁠
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Have plans to learn a new skill?⁠
Sleeping better can help.⁠
Want to be more patient with your kids?⁠
Good sleep is key.⁠
Focused on getting in better shape?⁠
Sleeping enough is critical.⁠
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If you spent last year exhausted because your baby or toddler was having trouble sleeping, the first thing I want you to know is you are not alone. Studies show that 75% of parents want to change something about their child's sleep. The good news is, there are some quick and easy things you can do TONIGHT to help improve your bedtime situation and get everyone sleeping all night long.⁠ 🙌😴 {Click 🔗 in bio to read more!}⁠
Written by @ohbabyconsulting⁠
📷: @dusktildawnphotography_⁠
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My house feels naked . . . is it weird that I don' My house feels naked . . . is it weird that I don't miss the holidays but I do miss the decor?⁠
📷: @howtobeadad
Did I even know what tired really was before I had Did I even know what tired really was before I had kids??? The need for caffeine is on a whole other level. ☕️☕️☕️☕️☕️☕️
📷: @beingthismama .
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Why I Changed My Mind About Attachment Parenting 🤔⁠
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We started with the best intentions . . .⁠
I started my parenting journey adamant that I would follow the tenants of the attachment parenting theory. It sounded ideal and wonderful. And for a very, very long time after having our first child, my husband and I tried our darndest to follow the model of attachment parenting. What we found, though, was that we were frustrated, unhappy, and felt like complete failures.⁠
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After a while, we had a “come to Jesus” moment about some of the ways we felt we needed to do things differently. And we agreed that attachment parenting was something we did not agree with anymore. So we took a step back and re-evaluated. Using common sense and good judgment, and forged our own way of parenting. It was the best thing we did for ourselves.⁠
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While I won’t tell you that attachment parenting is “bad” or “wrong” (because it’s not), I will tell you that it may not be the best fit for your family. And that’s okay. These are the reasons why I changed my mind about attachment parenting and I am not sorry that I decided to veer away from that particular parenting model. {Click link in bio to read more}⁠
📷: unknown⁠
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