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Becoming a Dad: Our Co-Founder, Brian Spears, Shares His Experience – Podcast Ep 35

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Becoming a Dad: Our Co-Founder, Brian Spears, Shares His Experience – Podcast Ep 35

June 23, 2020
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Since we are in the month of June and we just celebrated Father’s Day, we thought it would be fun to chat with a Dad about what it was like becoming a father. So, for today’s episode, we have an extra special guest, my husband, the other Co-Founder of Baby Chick, Brian Spears, and he is telling us his story. Was he ready? Was he nervous? And was becoming a dad everything he expected? We rarely get to talk to or hear from Brian on our website or social pages so we hope you enjoy this episode hearing from him. Brian’s answering all of our questions and sharing his journey of becoming a dad.

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Read more:

  1. 5 Creative Ways to Get Dad Involved in Baby Care
  2. The ULTIMATE Father’s Day Gift Guide
  3. To Single Mothers On Father’s Day
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Nina is The Baby Chick® & CEO of Baby Chick®. She is a baby planner, birth doula, postpartum doula, childbirth educator, newborn care specialist, and a mother. With over eight years of experience, she has supported hundreds of families during their pregnancies, births, and postpartum journeys.

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