7 Moms You Meet on the Playground (And What You Can Learn From Them)
Just like there are a million different ways to make a Starbucks drink for every particular person, there are a million different types of moms you meet on the playground. These moms may remind us a little bit of ourselves or encourage us in ways we might desire to grow as a mother. Sometimes these moms just make us feel good about the fact that we may not be a “pumpkin spice mommy” or a “green-tea skinny” girl, but instead an “iced-mocha mama with double whip.” And a good one at that. If we open ourselves up to connecting with these amazingly diverse women, we might even find our new best friend. So let’s dive into the types of moms we meet on the playground and consider what each one teaches us about ourselves.
7 Moms You Meet on the Playground
1. The Fit Mom
We can all instantly think of this mama. She probably even has a name to you because she likely sells some type of health supplement and does workout demos on her IG profile. As you talk to her, she is doing high steps on the playground stairs while her kids play. While she drinks her protein smoothie, she chases her kids around the playground with boundless energy and a perky booty to match. And while you admire her discipline, you still don’t join her workout group. But you encourage your friends to join instead.
So what’s the best thing about the fit mom?
Well, she reminds you it’s okay to prioritize your body and needs too. And even gives you permission to set goals for yourself as a woman. Not just a mom.
2. The Exhausted Mom
This mom unloads from her car and looks tired. She has her coffee in hand and messy mom bun and sweats. She doesn’t seem to care about the way her kids are dressed or the fact that she doesn’t have makeup on. Yawning, she walks around her car and begins to load her twins into the stroller. You can tell she’s had a long sleepless night without even talking to her. Then you see her energetic toddler bolt toward the playground as she yawns again.
So what is the best thing about the exhausted mom?
You see her trying her best to make it one day at a time knowing motherhood is tiring. And while that doesn’t stop her, she doesn’t care to hide it either. And that empowers you as you watch.
3. The Homeschool Mom
This mama opens her van door and a craft falls out as her kids unload in a line with art books in their hands. You watch her as she carefully lines them up under a tree then begins reading them a book on squirrels. After they finish, she asks them to get out their art pads and start drawing their best sketch. They listen carefully then begin following her lead. She answers questions as they go and seems to be fully content being their teacher. You are inspired and baffled all at once, “How does she do it?” you wonder as you sit in amazement.
So what the best thing about the homeschool mom?
She reminds you that being a mom is such an opportunity to invest and engage with your own children.
4. The Frustrated Mom
This mom parks her car and you can hear her exasperated words as the kids and she unload. “Why don’t you ever wear shoes? I tell you every time and you always show up barefoot! I don’t feel bad if you get a splinter!” She says in a firm tone. You find yourself chuckling at her frustration because you just said something similar to your children last night. But they look like angels right now. As they begin to walk closer to the slide, her child steps on a rock and cries. She is annoyed but does her best to show compassion. Then says, “Now next time, I hope this reminds you to wear shoes.” You relate to that too.
So what is the best thing about this frustrated mom?
She reminds you that parenting isn’t perfect. And even when we try our hardest, it often just doesn’t go as planned, and it’s normal to feel frustrated.
5. The Playful Mom
This mom unloads the car and is chasing her kids around the playground as they walk up. She is next to her children at every turn and while they play as you watch contently from your bench. She laughs and runs and seems to love everything about being a mother. You laugh as she plays and you even feel motivated to get up and play too. Then you remember your legs hurt from your workout, and your own kids seem content, so you continue to sit. But not her, she just keeps running and laughing.
So what is the best thing about the playful mom?
Well, she reminds you that kids are such a gift to enjoy, and she inspires you to have fun instead of getting caught up in the monotony of motherhood.
6. The Checked-Out Mom
This mom gets out of the car and gives all indication she wants to be on her own. Her child gets out and begins playing on their own, and she pulls out her phone. She zones out and doesn’t really respond to her child’s chatter much more than a head nod or a yes and no, and then she’s back to looking down. Then another person starts trying to talk to her, and she barely responds. You watch her be quiet and you are impressed with her ability not to care.
So what is the best thing about the checked-out mom?
She reminds you that it’s okay to permit yourself to check out from time to time. And to own no guilt for it.
7. The Dying-For-Social Connection Mom
This mom gets out of her car and she beelines to your bench. Before you can even say hello, she has already let out 200 words. She tells you she’s been feeling cooped up and asks you what you ate for breakfast and then tells you about the muffin recipe she just baked and asks if you’ve ever tried the yoga pants at Target and . . . she just goes on and on. You kind of want to get away, but you also realize that you’ve been there before. So you just listen then invite her to the social time at the kids’ gym for moms.
So what is the best thing about this dying-for-social connection mom?
Honestly, the list could go on and on. There are so many different types of moms you meet on the playground! The truth is, we’re all a little bit of all of these moms. At different phases in parenting, we will understand each of these moms in a whole new way. So remember to love your fellow mamas for who they are and for who they aren’t.
Most importantly, love yourself for who you are today. And who you might be in two years too. You may change your passions and style as a mom. So don’t let your ability to accept yourself change too.