11 Ways to Help Soothe a Fussy Baby - Baby Chick

11 Ways to Soothe a Fussy Baby

ParentingUpdated February 14, 2022

by Aimee Ketchum

Pediatric Occupational Therapist


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Probably the most commonly asked question of new parents is, “How do I soothe a fussy baby?”

Let’s take a closer look at the problem. Why is the baby fussing in the first place? I have written another article on interpreting your baby’s cry, but it is important to rule out several contributing factors.

First, check all of the basics: is her diaper dry? Is she in pain? Uncomfortable? Is her temperature too hot or cold? Hungry? Think about this last one. It can be hard to know if your baby is hungry. You may think she can’t possibly be hungry because she just ate, but if you are breastfeeding, maybe she didn’t get as much as usual, or perhaps she is having a growth spurt and needs more calories. Once you have ruled out all of these possibilities, we can delve a little deeper.

Here are some strategies to soothe a fussy baby:

1. Baby massage

It can be uncomfortable when babies have gas or need to move their bowels. It is not necessarily painful, but it is a new sensation because babies don’t move their bowels in utero, and anything you can do to help move things along quicker will be beneficial. Infant massage has several strokes to the abdominal area that help move the bowls. Infant massage also calms the baby, regulates sleep/wake cycles, and helps babies get deeper/more restful sleep. You can read more about the benefits here.

2. Swaddle

Babies are calmed by the neutral warmth and pressure of a good swaddle because it mimics the containment they felt in the womb.

3. Rock the baby

Babies are calmed by gentle movement because it also mimics the womb and helps them feel calm and relaxed. However, don’t be afraid to really swing baby from side to side. Some babies prefer bigger movements.

4. Shush the baby

Bring the baby’s ear close to your face and make a shushing noise in her ear. It is very loud in utero. Baby hears the swishing of the amniotic fluid, mom’s heartbeat, and their own heartbeat, so by recreating that swishing sound, you are creating a calm environment for your baby.

5. White noise

For the same reason babies are calmed by the shushing noise, babies like white noise, which is very calming for your babies. You can buy noise machines or use white noise apps on your smartphone.

6. Sing to your baby

The sound of your voice calms your baby because it is familiar to him. Talking and singing to him is reassuring and calming.

7. Rhythmic patting

Babies are calmed by repetition. By patting your baby rhythmically, you are helping them relax. Don’t be afraid to pat her hard enough that her whole body feels it. Anything your baby feels on her entire body is more calming than just feeling a sensation on only one part of her body. Think about the calming effect of a warm bath versus a trickle of water.

8. Music

Lullabies, nursery rhymes, and gentle music calm babies because it causes the baby to focus on the sound of the music instead of crying.

9. Read a book

The sound of your voice soothes babies, so by reading to them or telling them a story, you help them calm down and focus on your voice.

10. Take the baby for a ride in the car

For most babies, riding in a car is calming and helps babies relax and fall asleep. (If, however, you find your baby being fussy in their car seat, read here.)

11. Sucking

Sucking on a pacifier, nipple, finger (parent or baby’s) stimulates the release of a calming hormone. It is very relaxing for your baby, and that’s why pacifiers are so popular!

Sometimes babies need to fuss because it’s their only way of communicating. Sometimes babies are overstimulated and need that release. Try to relax and let your baby cry sometimes if they need to. Usually, a combination of these strategies will work to calm a baby. But if nothing works to soothe your fussy baby and your baby’s cry is elevating in pitch, and she begins to become inconsolable, such as with colic, you may want to contact your healthcare provider.


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