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5 Things Your NICU Baby Wants You to Know

Having a baby in the NICU can be a scary time. An occupational therapist shares 5 things a NICU baby would like their parents to know.

Updated January 12, 2023

by Aimee Ketchum

Pediatric Occupational Therapist

Having a baby in the neonatal intensive care unit (NICU) can be a scary, emotional experience! As an occupational therapist in the NICU, I interviewed some babies and this is what they would like mommy and daddy to know.

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Photo credit to Amelia Giangiulio

1. I feel your energy as soon as you approach me.

As you come to the isolette or crib, think about the energy that you carry. Babies are very perceptive. Are you stressed, anxious, nervous, or hurried? Your baby will sense this. Take a deep breath before you approach your baby so you can be calm and serene as you come into their world. Talk in low voices, use gentle touch, and reassure your baby that you are calm and ready to care for them.

2. I cannot process too much information at once.

Babies are working very hard to take in all the information from their world. They need to process what they see, hear, feel, and taste all at once, and it is easier for them if they only need to process these senses one at a time. When baby is focusing on your face or bright lights are on and they are visually stimulated, limit noise, movement, and touch. If you are rocking or stroking baby, limit visual stimulation. If you are talking to baby and they seem to be focusing on your voice, limit touch, movement, and visual stimulation. Newborns can be easily overstimulated. To learn about the signs of an overstimulated newborn and what to look for, read here.

3. I can smell you coming.

Babies’ sense of smell is very well-developed at birth, and mommy’s scent calms them. Consider leaving an article of clothing that you just wore with your baby when you leave. You could also put a small burp cloth against your skin, then leave it with your baby when you are not there to keep your baby calm.

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Photo credit to Amelia Giangiulio

4. I need skin-to-skin touch.

Kangaroo care (putting baby down mommy or daddy’s shirt) is great for baby’s development and bonding with the baby. This also helps to regulate baby’s temperature, heart rate, respiration, and brain development. You can also do infant massage for skin-on-skin contact. The developmental benefits of skin-on-skin contact are immeasurable!

5. I feel calm when I hear familiar sounds.

Babies do hear in utero, and by recreating the sounds of utero, babies can be soothed. Mom’s voice is usually very calming for baby. Sing to your baby, read a book, and just talk to your baby. Studies show that babies demonstrate familiarity with their mom’s voice just one day after birth. Babies are also calmed by white noise or ocean sounds, recreating the swishing sound of the amniotic fluid. Babies also like the sound of the heartbeat and many baby sound machines play a heartbeat sound.

It can be very difficult to have a baby in the NICU, but remember, they are getting the care they need. You can take advantage of the knowledge of the nurses, therapists, and neonatologists to give you lots of information before you bring your precious baby home.



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Dr. Aimee Ketchum is an Academic Fieldwork Coordinator and Assistant Professor of early child development at Cedar Crest College Occupational Therapy Doctoral Program. She continues practicing her skills as a… Read more

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