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Men’s Bathrooms Need Changing Tables, Too

Cropped image of a young father changing the diaper to his cute newborn.

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There are many stigmas out there that force the idea that moms should take the brunt of parenting. There is a constant emphasis on maternal instinct. Not to mention the perceived notion that women, working or not, are responsible for the day-to-day care of their children. All of this has helped create a false impression that fathers cannot take care of their children at the same level mothers can. Of course, this is all inaccurate information. But the idea has led to everyday decisions that hinder men from their parenting duties. One big one: changing tables. As women, we are accustomed to seeing changing tables in pretty much every bathroom we set foot in. Whether we… Read More

There are many stigmas out there that force the idea that moms should take the brunt of parenting. There is a constant emphasis on maternal instinct. Not to mention the perceived notion that women, working or not, are responsible for the day-to-day care of their children. All of this has helped create a false impression that fathers cannot take care of their children at the same level mothers can. Of course, this is all inaccurate information. But the idea has led to everyday decisions that hinder men from their parenting duties. One big one: changing tables.

As women, we are accustomed to seeing changing tables in pretty much every bathroom we set foot in. Whether we are at a rest stop or a fancy restaurant, there is always a place to change a baby. Men, on the other hand, are probably shocked to find anything even close to a changing table in their public restrooms. And this can be a big problem.

Why Men’s Rooms Need Changing Tables

Recently, father’s have been posting about the creative ways they change their children without a changing table. One father, who posted an image of himself changing his kid while squatting on the bathroom floor, sparked a viral movement to get changing tables in men’s restrooms. The photo led to the #SquatForChange hashtag, which then began trending. This prompted Pampers to create a mission to install 5,000 changing tables in men’s bathrooms across the country by 2021. It’s a great start, but it’s not enough.

Until changing tables become the norm in every men’s bathroom, what is a man to do when he is with his children and they need a change? Why should the mother be forced to be the only parent able to change their child? What about single fathers? Here are a few reasons why all men’s bathrooms need changing tables, too.

There is not always a woman present.

All families look different. Some have one parent, while some have two parents of the same sex. Some have no “parent” but rather a grandparent or other guardian. No matter what a family looks like, they shouldn’t be worried about where or how they can change their baby’s diaper when not at home. A woman not being present shouldn’t lead to babies being changed on a dirty public restroom floor, in a car, or any other location not suited for that task.

Multiple children may need to use the restroom.

Even if a family does have a woman present, we all know that when one kid needs to go, the others will too. Having two parents around makes things a lot easier for families with multiple children, especially when on the go. When there is no changing table in the men’s restroom, that leaves the option for “dividing and conquering” entirely out of the question.

The issue of gender in restrooms.

When people think of changing tables, they often think of them being used by infants. As parents, you will learn that most children aren’t potty trained until three. The American Association of Pediatrics even reports that many kids reach age four without being fully trained. At 3- or 4-years-old, a child is most likely aware of gender. They tend to know which bathroom is the “right” one. A male child may suddenly have an issue with joining mom in the girl’s bathroom. This can cause a huge issue when out in public.

Mothers and fathers are equal.

As stated above, only putting changing tables in women’s restrooms highlights the idea that mothers are chosen by society as the dominant parent. This negatively impacts the mother by housing the majority of the childcare responsibilities on her shoulders. It is also detrimental to the father, who wants to be just as involved in his equal parenting relationship.

Outside caretakers are not all female.

It may have once been odd to see a male nanny or babysitter. But as this profession becomes more widely spread across genders, it’s essential that men have equal capacity to do their job well. If a male nanny or babysitter wants to take the children in their care to the playground or the store, they shouldn’t have to worry about whether they’ll be able to take those children to the bathroom when they need a change.

If you are interested in getting changing tables in men’s restrooms or want to learn more about the current movement, join the #SquatforChange challenge.