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Pacifier Weaning: 7 Tips for Getting Rid of The Pacifier

parentingUpdated February 11, 2022

by Jessica Kaplan, DDS

Pediatric Dentist


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In day-to-day life, a pacifier can be a lifeline to new parents. Many parents use them to soothe babies fussing in a public setting. Some swear they help babies who are having issues falling and staying asleep. But, as babies leave the infant stage and become toddlers, the negatives of pacifier use begin to outweigh the positives. No matter how much your child loves their binky, getting rid of the pacifier will become necessary.

Pacifiers can be great for non-nutritive sucking, which is a normal part of development. And pacifiers have some proven benefits, such as being protective against SIDS. While pacifiers can be helpful, they have a time limit on them (as do many things your infant will use at birth!). So when should you try to wean your child from their pacifier? And how?

Getting Rid of the Pacifier: When To Do It

The American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry (AAPD) recommends that habits such as thumb sucking and pacifier sucking should be stopped by age three. One could make the argument that the pacifier is preferred over the thumb because you can’t take away your child’s thumb, but you can take away their pacifier.

Start the Weaning Process Slowly

As a pediatric dentist, my first visit with a patient generally happens around one year old. We talk about habits and whether the child is using a pacifier. At this point, I usually advise parents to keep the pacifier limited to naptime and bedtime. I also recommend that the child only have access to the pacifier in their crib (or a long car ride or plane ride, etc.). This way, you are gearing the child up to quit when the time comes. If your three-year-old is used to having their pacifier all day, it becomes a much more difficult habit to break than if they only have access to it in their crib.

Every child is so different, and there are so many ways to break the habit when it comes time to do so. But if your child is used to using their pacifier only when they sleep, they will likely have an easier time quitting. What can sometimes happen is that once a child turns three, they are usually are in preschool and may have dropped their afternoon nap or be ready to drop their nap soon. At this point, when they go to sleep at night, they are so tired that sometimes they will fall asleep and not even realize if the pacifier is in their mouth. They may just naturally become decreasingly dependent on their pacifier!

Another reason quitting at three is great is that most children will have the developmental maturity to understand quitting. They may actually want to quit! I always tell parents (and children) that it is easier to break a habit if the child is on board with stopping.

Tips for Getting Rid of the Pacifier

There are endless tips and tricks for weaning your child from the pacifier. Here are some of the most effective ways I’ve helped patients quit their pacifier habit in the past:

1. Go cold turkey.

This is usually better for children under one year old. At one year old, children develop object permanence – meaning when you take something away, they know it still exists in the world. If you wait past the age of one, you can still do it, but it will be harder!

2. Cut the tip off.

Progressively cut a small amount of the nipple off the pacifier every few nights until there is nothing left to suck on! FridaBaby has recently released a product that mimics the idea of cutting the tip but with a more gradual process.

3. Sticker charts.

If your child is around three, you might want to try a sticker chart. Each day/night your child doesn’t use their pacifier, offer them a sticker to place on that day. At the end of each week, let your child pick out a small prize, and at the end of the month, let them pick out a big prize.

4. Have a party.

Collect all the remaining pacifiers and throw a “bye-bye paci party.” You can decorate a box to put the pacifiers in and make a big production out of this. Make it a celebration for everyone in the family to enjoy!

5. “Donate” to a good cause.

Give the pacifiers away to another baby like a cousin or friend who has a new baby.

6. Read about it.

Read books about quitting the pacifier, and have lots of positive conversations about how great your child is for no longer using the pacifier. The more excited they see you are, the more excited they’ll be too. Some great books for this are Pacifiers Are Not Forever by Elizabeth Verdick and Bye-Bye Binky by Maria van Lieshout.

7. Loveys to the rescue.

Offer a “lovey” or something in place of the pacifier. Sometimes all your child needs is a comfort item when they sleep.

Getting rid of the pacifier may be stressful for both parents and babies. But, hopefully, one or more of these tips will help ease the process. Many of these options can be combined or tweaked to fit whatever works best for your family! Whatever method you choose, try to stay consistent and calm, and call your pediatric dentist if you need more help.

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