How to Succeed in Potty Training without Even Crying

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How to Succeed in Potty Training without Even Crying

Iam going to be completely and unabashedly honest here. This is my potty training experience on-the-rocks, no chaser. I consider myself a fairly brave woman. We will welcome our third child into this world later this summer — that will bring us to three children under the age of four. That takes balls, my friends. But potty training? That was one parenting task I was not looking forward to experiencing.

If you ask me, the whole ordeal seems terrifying, and a bit unnatural. I grew up in a relatively modest home; the “p” word (and by that I mean potty) kind of freaked me out! So I did what I do best in these situations. (Did I mention I’m a tad passive-aggressive?) I just avoided the “p” word entirely. As long as I possibly could. It wasn’t until we moved back to Texas this past summer, that I finally began to get serious. I mean, obviously, I couldn’t start training in the middle of a big cross-country move.

My trepidation wasn’t the result of a lack of research. I read books and articles and blog posts about potty training until I was blue in the face. I knew the signs of readiness by memory, and I knew that most doctors and researchers suggested waiting until the child in question reaches the age of three (or relatively close to the age of three) — in order to ensure greater potty training success, and perhaps curtail accidents and regression.

SO. My oldest daughter’s third birthday came and went. Yet still I waited, justifying my behavior with every excuse in the book. By this time it had become perfectly clear that my almost preschooler wasn’t going to magically learn to use the “big girl potty” all on her own. Sadly, it took me finding out that no way, no how was she getting accepted into a pre-preschool program at Church without being fully potty trained for me to finally bite the bullet. Over wine and dessert, I begged my neighborhood girlfriends for their best potty training advice. I was desperate. One friend suggested I try the “Three Day Potty Training Boot Camp.” And do you know what? I am so glad she did!

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I won’t give everything away here (check out the link above or Google search “Potty Training Boot Camp” for a complete description of how the method works), but here is the gist. For three days, you will do nothing but potty train. If you have other children, you might want some extra help. In order for this to work, you need to be able to completely devote yourself to the child that is training.

Here’s How Potty Training Works

First Step

“Throw away” all the diapers she used to wear when she was a baby, explaining that now she is a big girl and big girls use the big girl potty. Have her help you with this task. (You don’t have to actually throw the diapers away. Just make sure she thinks you are throwing them away.)

Second Step

Present her with new, big girl underwear and a blank potty chart. You are going to want to have some small and large potty prizes on hand (think candy, stickers, and small toys). Explain to her that she needs to tell mommy or daddy when she needs to go to the potty. The phrasing is very specific here.

Third Step

Next, you are going to pump her full of liquid. Let her drink as much as she wants, because this creates the necessary trips (over and over and over) to the big girl potty. Essentially, you will spend the next three days running her to the bathroom every time she tells you she needs to go potty. Eventually, it will stick. But there will be some accidents along the way, so be prepared for this. And that’s it! Don’t stress too much about potty training overnight at first — this is something that can take some kiddos years to master. There’s no shame in wearing a pull-up to bed until that day comes. Unless you want to constantly change sheets in the middle of the night!

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Here’s the crazy part: my three year old was fully potty trained after our first trip to the big girl potty. She was ready the whole time; I was the one holding her back! But every kiddo is different. Don’t be afraid to talk to your pediatrician about any concerns you might be having in the potty training (or any other parenting) department. They are the real experts. At any rate, your kiddo will love having your undivided attention for three days. (Mine sure did!) And try not to stress — eventually you too, will have little Johnny potty trained. As far as I know, no one has ever made it to kindergarten in diapers. Good luck, Mommy Chicks! And don’t be afraid to reward yourself along the way…but maybe skip the sticker chart and head straight for the Moscato! That’s what I did. xoxo

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Wife, mommy to three precious little girls, currently pregnant with baby a boy, and owner of The Plaid Pony.

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