How to Introduce Your Pets to Your Baby

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How to Introduce Your Pets to Your Baby

Before you have babies, your pets are your babies. Fur babies that is. But when you find out you’re expecting, your whole world is about to change…and so is your pet’s. Bringing in a new pack member/leader into the home can be a lot for your pet to handle. This is why it’s important to start thinking about how you are going to handle the first introduction.

Introducing Pets to a New Baby

1. Set Boundaries

First things first: I recommend that you start with setting the nursery off-limits. Condition your dog or cat to understand that there is an invisible barrier (or maybe a physical barrier – if you get baby gates) that she may not cross without your permission. Eventually, you can allow your pet to explore and sniff certain things in the room with your supervision. Then you decide when she needs to leave. Repeat this activity a few times before the baby arrives. This will let your pet know that this room belongs to its pack leader and must be respected at all times.

Also, to prevent bad habits, don’t let your pet: play with your baby’s toys, lay in the baby’s crib, lay in the stroller or bassinet, etc. This continues to set those boundaries. Pets can become possessive and this behavior could be dangerous and hard to correct later on when your baby is at home. Setting these boundaries can help avoid difficulties in the future.

waiting for baby's dinner

2. Introduce Your Baby’s Scent

Once your baby is born, be sure to give an item that contains your baby’s scent to someone that is going to go take care of your pets while you’re away. Maybe your husband/partner is going to stop in and check on your pets. Give him a used burp cloth, the hospital blanket your baby was swaddled in, or a onesie your baby was wearing. During this exercise, Cesar Millan “The Dog Whisperer” says that you need to have “the dog sniff from a distance while you are holding the item. By doing so, you are communicating to your dog that the item is yours and then giving permission for the dog to sniff. ‘This new item belongs to me, and you will need to follow my rules when around it.’ This helps start the process of creating respect for the baby.”

3. For Dogs, Wear Them Out Before You Get Home

If you’ve had your baby in the hospital, you’ve been gone for a few days so your pets are going to be so excited to see you when you get home! I recommend having a neighbor, family member, or friend taking your dog(s) to the local dog park or taking them on a run to wear them out before you get home with baby. They still will be thrilled to see you, but at least some of their energy will be drained so they will be quicker to calm down.

4. Greet Your Pets First

When you finally arrive home from the hospital, the cat or dog should be allowed to greet you (mom) without the baby present. Have someone else (your partner) hold your baby while you spend time to greet your pets. Only after the pet has calmed down should your partner present the baby. It may be a good idea to keep the dog and baby separate for a few hours. This way the dog can get used to the baby being in the house without getting too close.

If you have a cat, an introduction should also not be rushed. Hold the cat near the baby (again, just close enough so he can smell the little one) keep a calm energy and talk soothingly to your cat.


5. Keep Calm

Just as you wait for your pets to calm down when you arrive home, you or your partner holding the baby also must be in a calm state. The cat or dog should be allowed to sniff the baby, at a bit of a distance. Eventually, allow your cat or dog to get closer and closer to the baby. By doing this, you are teaching your pet to respect the baby as another pack member/leader.

Also, never yell at your dog or cat if she gets too close for comfort. You can be firm, but don’t raise your voice with your pets when dealing with your baby. It will only frighten your pet and creates a negative association with the baby. This is why remaining calm is so important. Make sure that you only reward calm and positive behavior.

6. Praise Your Pet

If your dog or cat is behaving nicely around the new baby, be sure to point that good behavior out. Offer plenty of praise through words and treats. Positive reinforcement will encourage good behavior.

7. Don’t Forget Your Pet


You want your dog or cat to know that she’s still a beloved member of the family. Allow your pet to sit by you as you nurse, or play with her while you cuddle with your baby. And try to spend at least five minutes of solo time every day with your affection-hungry pet. A happy cat or dog is usually a well-behaved one. When a pet starts acting up it’s because she’s not getting the same attention she was used to getting.

Also, stick with your pet’s regular routines as much as possible. They need that structure especially when so much has changed in your home.

8. Forget the Size and Breed

Don’t assume your pet will (or will not) pose a problem because they are small or judge your pet by their breed. Many babies have been bitten, scratched and, unfortunately, even been killed by many different breeds. A baby in California was killed by a cute, little Pomeranian. I HAVE a Pomeranian and would never think Lola would do such a thing. But you never know so always remain cautious and be in control of your pets.

9. Safety First

Sleeping baby

If, after working with a professional and on your own, you are still not 100% confident about the safety of your baby with your pet, then finding your pet another home to protect the well-being of your child and pet is a step you may have to take. It’s a painful step, but your child’s safety should always come first.

10. Always Supervise

Never leave your baby unattended within your pet’s reach no matter what breed your pet is or how long he/she has been in the family. Infant behavior (squealing, a jerky movement) could unexpectedly irritate your cat or dog and cause them to have a quick, negative reaction. Even if your pet is adjusting well and shows no signs of aggression, supervision will ensure no accidents occur until your baby has gotten older.

Pets are so important in every family so I hope these tips help you when you bring home your baby! Were there any other things that you did that made your baby’s introduction to your pets better? We want to know!

About the Author /

Nina is The Baby Chick® & CEO of Baby Chick®. She is a baby planner, birth doula, postpartum doula, childbirth educator, newborn care specialist, and a mother. With over eight years of experience, she has supported hundreds of families during their pregnancies, births, and postpartum journeys.

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