Exercises You Should Do Before Giving Birth

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Exercises You Should Do Before Giving Birth

Pregnancy and birth are physically taxing events, but they can also be empowering experiences. Exercising during pregnancy can help the birth process go more smoothly as well as offer other incredible benefits, lowered stress, better posture, less back pain, and less complicated postpartum recovery. Best of all, you’ll feel more powerful and in control of how your body is changing and growing. While most exercise is great even for pregnant women, there are some exercises you really should do before giving birth.

Why is exercise so important during pregnancy?

Before we get down to the nitty-gritty, let me explain why exercising during pregnancy is so beneficial. Exercising during pregnancy has been shown to provide:

  • Shorter labor
  • 49% lower incidences of gestational diabetes
  • 79% lower incidences of gestational hypertension and preeclampsia
  • 18% lower frequency of cesarean delivery
  • 38% lower rate of spontaneous preterm birth
  • May stimulate the healthy growth of the baby throughout childhood
  • May increase intelligence of the baby
  • Decreases the risk of chronic disease for both mother and child

How your body changes during pregnancy

There are so many side effects and symptoms during pregnancy. It’s impossible to list them all. Each woman experiences different changes during the three trimesters, but some physical adaptations occur during every pregnancy. Changes occur with:

  • Hormonal and metabolic systems
  • Respiratory system
  • Cardiovascular system
  • Musculoskeletal system
  • Abdominal wall and pelvic floor

These changes play significant roles in how and why you should exercise during each trimester of pregnancy. Some of these physical adaptations can cause pain and discomfort. By doing these and other exercises during pregnancy, you can help lower the risks and symptoms.

Common issues that arise during pregnancy

During pregnancy, your abdominal wall and ribcage expand to make room for your growing baby. Changes occur to the muscles’ line of pull and the ability to twist and turn and create force with your abdominals. Your abdominal wall also separates — something called diastasis recti. This process is normal, and most women experience a diastasis of more than 16 millimeters during the third trimester.

The lengthening and weakening of the abdominal muscles can cause discomfort like low back pain or pelvic girdle pain. These pains occur in the lower back, base of the spine, or front of the pelvis. Discomfort can arise in the buttocks, inner thighs, and lower abdomen.

Other common issues that arise during pregnancy and after birth are pelvic organ prolapse and urinary incontinence. Urinary incontinence affects between 17 and 25 percent of women in the early stages of pregnancy and 35 to 67 percent in the later stages. Studies show that properly exercising during pregnancy can help improve and treat these issues.

Exercises for a Stronger Core and Pelvic Floor

Thankfully, exercising during pregnancy can provide relief for these symptoms as well as help prevent your diastasis recti from getting worse. Exercise can also help make healing your diastasis easier post-pregnancy if you start while you’re pregnant.

A stronger core and pelvic floor assist in making the birthing process easier, faster, and safer. The American Academy of Obstetricians and Gynecologists recommends women without pregnancy complications should participate in cardiovascular and strength training exercise for at least 20-30 minutes per day.

The following are exercises you should do before giving birth. They will strengthen and protect your core and pelvic floor, helping to prevent diastasis recti, pelvic organ prolapse, and urinary incontinence.

Connection Breath

Breathing seems like an unconscious process that requires no thought, but being able to breathe correctly helps keep equal tension through your core muscles to prevent diastasis recti and issues with your pelvic floor. Being able to connect your breath through your core and pelvic floor is a beneficial skill.

How to do it:

Step One: Get your body in alignment

  • Stand tall, keep your rib cage over your pelvis, don’t round your shoulders
  • Don’t push your bottom out or tuck it under, allow a natural lower back curve
  • Become aware of your core, starting at the diaphragm and traveling down to the pelvic floor muscles

Step Two: Breathe

  • Sit on a firm chair, keeping the proper alignment of step one
  • Place one hand on your tummy and one on your chest
  • Inhale, breathing into your hands, envisioning your pelvic floor like a balloon you are filing with your breath
  • Exhale, paying attention to your hands sinking and lowering as the air deflates
  • Think of your pelvic floor deflating upwards

Step Three: Take it further

  • Inhale, envision your vagina and anus filing with air, pushing your sit bones away from each other
  • Exhale, focus on your breath flowing out of your rib cage, tummy, and pelvis
  • You should focus on the muscles of the vagina and perineum tightening and pulling upwards slightly
  • Keep breathing, fully relaxing your vagina and anus when you inhale and tightening and pulling upwards when you exhale
  • When you get the hang of this, try practicing it when you are lifting things in your daily life or during exercise
  • Try 1 to 2 sets of 10 per day

Proper Kegels

One of the most important exercises you should do before giving birth is Kegels. Traditional cues for Kegels come up short. There’s more to Kegels than just being able to stop your flow of urine while on the toilet. This process does help you to find your pelvic floor muscles but does not do much to improve your pelvic floor muscles. It may even be detrimental.

Here’s how to do them properly:

  • Using your connection breath, inhale, filling your diaphragm and feeling it lower, relaxing and expanding your pelvic floor muscles
  • Exhale, feeling your diaphragm lift back up and pulling in your pelvic floor muscles
  • Tighten your abdominals at the end of the exhale, feeling the pelvic floor muscles continue to tighten in connection with your core
  • Envision your pelvic floor and abdominal muscles working as one unit
  • Perform two sets of 10 per day, focusing on quality and taking your time

Squatting

Squatting is known for creating firm, round glutes, but it is also a very functional important exercise for your core and pelvic floor strength. Doing squats with proper form helps to establish an appropriate alignment in your posture, and while you move around during the day — stooping to pick something up, lift a child or some groceries, or get up and down from a chair.

Squatting is also a fantastic posture for birthing. Throughout history, women squatted to give birth, and it is still commonly done today. Using gravity and proper body alignment during squatting is a fantastic way to give birth.

Studies show that avoiding laying on your back and instead birthing in a squatting position can help the baby descend through the birth canal more efficiently, and may result in:

  • shorter second-stage labor
  • less forceps or vacuum births
  • fewer episiotomies
  • fewer abnormal fetal heart rate patterns
  • less pain during pushing

There are many varieties of squats you can do, even while pregnant, as long as you are medically cleared to do so.

  • Bodyweight squat
  • Goblet squat holding a dumbbell or kettlebell close to your body
  • Barbell back squat or front squat
  • Dumbbell or kettlebell front squat

Most exercise is safe for pregnant women

Aside from these exercises, you should do before giving birth, the activities you were doing before pregnancy are acceptable during pregnancy if you are medically cleared and have no complications. Movement patterns like pulling, hip hinges, pushing, and core work are still great to do.

Some safety guidelines are:

  • Watch your intensity — exercise will feel more intense during pregnancy. If you were working out at a moderate to high intensity before pregnancy, stick to a 7 to 8 out of 10 effort while pregnant. If you weren’t working out at all, or only at a low intensity, stick to 2 to 6 out of ten intensity.
  • Call a medical professional if you experience vaginal bleeding, painful contractions, dizziness or loss of balance, headache, chest pain, calf pain, weakness, shortness of breath before exercise, fluid leakage, or even if you just feel off. Remember to listen to your body above all else.
  • Avoid contact sports: sports that could result in falls such as skiing or horseback riding, scuba diving, high-temperature sports like hot yoga, or outdoors in hot weather. Avoid anything that feels painful or uncomfortable, any exercise that causes you to leak urine, any activities that cause your abdominals to bulge like planks and crunches.
  • In later pregnancy, avoid laying on your back for any exercise or yoga.

Exercising during pregnancy comes with many benefits —better health for you and your baby, and decreased risks of complications before, during, and after labor and delivery. So, find your connection breath, and do your squats. Your body and baby will thank you!

About the Author /

Rachel MacPherson is a certified personal trainer and nutrition coach who's passion is helping families feel energized to lead vibrant, fit lives. She writes about balancing a healthy lifestyle with self-care and positive body image and creates fresh, healthy meal prep recipes on her site RadicalStrength.ca. Rachel lives in Montreal with her partner, super active kiddos, and three kitties.

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Each woman knows that pregnancy is one of the most important events in her life. ❤️ This wonderful process makes a lot of changes in a woman’s organism and, as it follows, in her lifestyle. And I am not an exception.⁠
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The first things that have changed are my workouts. Right now I'm at the end of my second trimester and I still workout 3 times a week, like I did before, but the intensity is much lower (about 10-20% of what it used to be).⁠
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As for my exercises, I am focused on glutes, legs, arms, and a little bit of side abs. What do my workouts usually include?⁠
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Currently, I do avoid jumping & abs exercises because they feel uncomfortable and too exhausting. But if anyone still wants to do abs exercises, do not do them on a flat surface - it’s better to use a fit ball or bosu ball.⁠
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Remember that it’s safe to work out during pregnancy if you have been consistently working out before pregnancy and have clearance from your doctor. Pregnancy is very individual & depending on your and baby's health, your doctor may decide that you should avoid physical activity for some time. For example, I was unable to work out during my first trimester for about a month, but I did some light stretching and walking instead. It's important for us to all remember that we are carrying a little human inside of us and, obviously, we should think about him/her first. Do not work out if your doctor has not given you medical clearance. If you feel that you can’t do some exercises, it’s better to skip them altogether - listening to your body is very important right now.⁠
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The second main thing during pregnancy is nutrition. 🍎 First of all, I have always been against strict diets 🙅‍♀️ and my daily routine included 5 meals--eating small portions regularly throughout the day. My diet before pregnancy excluded ❌ red meat, milk, and animal fats. I followed these rules 5 days a week. (Continue reading in the comments!)
Postpartum Expectations Versus Reality⁠ ⁠ "Eve Postpartum Expectations Versus Reality⁠
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"Every new mom probably envisions herself swathed in a soft robe, snuggled up with her freshly-born baby. 🤱 Beautiful and glowing, she smiles as she blissfully nurses or feeds a bottle to her beautiful pink-faced baby. 🥰 These moments are precious, and they do exist, but it's more the expectation than the reality of what the postpartum experience looks like. I spoke to pediatrician Harvey Karp, baby sleep wizard, and the author of the popular book 'The Happiest Baby on the Block', about how to manage postpartum expectations versus reality, including bonding, a lack of sleep, and handling all the new responsibilities of having a newborn." {Click 🔗 in bio to continue reading!}⁠
Article by: ⁠Rachel MacPherson⁠
📷: @the_pettylife
Boobies leaking and fires blazing! 😵🤣⁠
📷: @mommymemest
The Day I Realized My Kid Is Not Like Me⁠ ⁠
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"On the day I realized my kid is not like me, I could tell by the look in my daughter’s eyes that I’d breached a moral line.⁠
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My loving and kind-hearted daughter had been dealing with teasing and bullying all year. We’d been struggling to get the school and specific teachers to react in any sort of fashion that could make us feel like they cared. I’d become even more jaded as the months rolled by, and the teasing continued.⁠
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'I made Miss Rebecca a birthday card, it’s her birthday today!' my daughter told me after school one day. My reply? 'I really don’t care about her or her birthday.' My daughter gave me that look. How could I be so cold? Her eyes searched my face for any amount of empathy or even a hint that I was sorry. I knew my face was drawn and pinched in that disapproving grimace only mothers can make.⁠
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As I looked down at her while we were walking home, my face softened. Here was this lovely empathetic little soul who only ever wanted to make sure everyone was happy and included. She didn’t deserve to be picked on because she played with the 'different' child in her classroom. She didn’t deserve to be poked and laughed at because of how easily they could make her cry. But somehow she remained this soft, sweet girl she’d always been, making a birthday card for the teacher who’d repeatedly made her feel like she was to blame for her own bullying.⁠
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My response was to get angry, get my back up, retaliate. My full mama bear mode was unleashed. But I also knew that this was my personality. I am guarded, I’m careful, and I don’t trust people. I had a lot to learn from my little girl." {Click 🔗 in bio to continue reading!}⁠
Article by: ⁠Rachel MacPherson⁠
📷: @jlo
It’s going to be okay. ❤️ We will get throug It’s going to be okay. ❤️
We will get through this. 💪
No matter how many toddler tantrums happen or work emails come our way, breathe and take one thing at a time. 🧘‍♀️
Because our work will never be finished. 🤹‍♀️
Our inboxes will never be empty. 💻
We will always be striving for happy, healthy children, clean houses, good work done and that will never cease. 🏠
But WE make each day what it is.💕
Only we can determine our own happiness. 😊
Even though our days look far from what we expected, we need to welcome each day with a smile. Be appreciative for what we have and for our health. 🙏
So let go of how you think today or this week is supposed to go. This time is only temporary. This stage is only temporary. ⏱Look for the good, and roll with the punches. We’re in this together, apart. ❤️
Mothers are superheroes, I am convinced. 🙌⁠ T Mothers are superheroes, I am convinced. 🙌⁠
This great image taken by @bubbapage, @jordanpage's husband, shows that taking care of kids & babies (multiples at that!) is no joke. 💪😴⁠
We salute you, mamas! You're doing better than you know. Keep loving, keep mothering, keep going. We are with you. 💗
Now this is the cutest thing I've ever seen in a b Now this is the cutest thing I've ever seen in a bedroom for three girls. 😍⁠
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💤 Sleep Tips for Kids!⁠ 💤⁠
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1️⃣ Have a bedtime routine.⁠
A regular bedtime routine starting around the same time every night encourages good sleep patterns for kids.⁠
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2️⃣ Have some relaxation-time before bedtime⁠.⁠
Have your children wind down by reading a book, listening to gentle music, or practicing breathing for relaxation.⁠ This will help their minds and their bodies to go to sleep.⁠
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3️⃣ Be consistent with your child's awake and sleep times.⁠
Keep your child’s bedtimes and wake-up times within 1-2 hours of each other each day. This helps to keep your child’s body clock in a regular pattern.⁠
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4️⃣ Eat the right amount at the right time⁠.⁠
Make sure your child has a satisfying evening meal at a reasonable time. Feeling hungry or too full before bed can make your child more alert or uncomfortable since their body is either hungry or trying to digest. Either can make it harder for her to get to sleep.⁠
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5️⃣ Keep older children’s naps early and short⁠.⁠
Most children stop napping at 3-5 years of age. If your child is over five-years-old and is still napping during the day, try to keep the nap to no longer than 20 minutes and no later than early afternoon. Longer and later naps can make it harder for children to get to sleep at night.⁠
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6️⃣ Check noise and light in your child’s bedroom⁠.⁠
A quiet, dimly lit space is important for good sleep. Check whether your child’s bedroom is too light or noisy for sleep.⁠
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7️⃣ Make sure your child feels safe at night⁠.⁠
If your child feels scared about going to bed or being in the dark, you can praise and reward her whenever she is brave. Some children with bedtime fears feel better when they have a night light or sound machine.⁠
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Hope you guys are having a great weekend and are getting plenty of sleep! 🙏❤️⁠
📷: @tyson_moore