Celebrating My “Village”

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Celebrating My “Village”

It takes a village. Yep. That’s one I had heard plenty before getting pregnant with Fischer. Now that I’m almost two years into this mommy thing, it’s a phrase I find myself saying…often. Historically, the “village”, was quite literal. People lived communally, in some places around the world they still do, and so it wasn’t up to just the biological mother but ALL the village mothers to raise the kids and support one another. I wouldn’t say that idea has necessarily disappeared over the years but for a number of reasons, the “village” doesn’t always literally exist anymore. Question is, has the importance of the village disappeared? I whole-heartedly argue NO.

A few years ago I “lost” a friend to her village. She was my first friend to have a baby and though she eventually made her way back, we knew that instead of nursing a hangover with us on a Sunday she was at a play-date, at the park, at the zoo…etc. We didn’t get it.

And then came Fischer.

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Since then, I’ve realized the incomparable value of THE village. Of surrounding yourself with like-minded mothers, and heck, even some that aren’t as like-minded. Of allowing someone else to show your child how to do something or BE something.

Since this is the MONTH (my husband loves when I say that) of motherhood, why not celebrate those women? Those who inspire you to be the best mother YOU can be, who encourage you when you feel like you’re not doing it “right”, and, perhaps most importantly, who you trust to help raise your child and develop a strong moral foundation within them. Celebrate each other’s successes, misgiving, blunders (wait, we’ve NEVER had one of those…), goals… and generally the fact that we make the world go round. 🙂

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Momma-time! These ladies have celebrated with me in my best moments and been there to lift me up when I need it most.

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This lady isn’t a momma herself but she IS Fischer’s Godmother and that more than counts!

No matter how you choose to celebrate each other’s awesome mothering skills the point is to remember that you’re doing it right, momma because you’re doing it YOUR way.

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X.O.

Lanie

Have you ever hosted a celebration of motherhood? I’d love to hear your thoughts and ideas!

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1 Comment

  • Allison Elizabeth Kamel
    September 12, 2015

    Love and hugs to my sweet and beautiful friend!! Cheers to you and the hard working mommas out there!! 🙂

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