How and When to Conceive After a Loss - Baby Chick

How and When to Conceive After a Loss

Pregnancy loss is devastating. It can also be hard to know when to try to get pregnant again. Here is how and when to conceive after loss.

Updated February 15, 2022

by Brooke Boskovich

Fertility Dietician MS, RD, LDN

No matter how far along you were, pregnancy loss is devastating, and the fear of conceiving and experiencing another loss can be debilitating. A pregnancy loss can leave you feeling alone and unsure of where to turn or what to do next.

There is no rule book for recovering from a loss. Every person and couple grieves differently. It is important to give yourself time to process, feel sad, angry, scared, or whatever else you may be feeling. Honor the grief process, no matter what that looks like for you.

It is common to feel alone, like you are the only one that has experienced a pregnancy loss. Even though it’s not common to talk about, the chances are high that you know someone that has gone through exactly what you are going through. It is estimated that 10-15% of known pregnancies end in miscarriage before 12 weeks gestation. Another 1-5% of pregnancies end in miscarriage between weeks 13 and 19 gestations.

What causes pregnancy loss?

One of the most common causes of pregnancy loss during the first trimester is chromosomal abnormalities or genetic errors, at 50-60%. Other causes of pregnancy loss include:

  • Thyroid autoimmunity [1,2]
  • Structural/lining issues [3]
  • Infections [4,5]
  • Environmental factors [6]

Chromosomal abnormalities and hormone levels can be greatly improved with targeted nutrition, supplement, and lifestyle support, reducing your risk of having another miscarriage. Implementing nutrition and lifestyle changes will support the health of the egg during the 90-100 day (3-4 month) maturation period.

During the 3-4 months before ovulation (the preconception period), an egg goes through a major transformation in size and starts producing much more energy. The egg is essentially genetically reprogrammed by picking and choosing chromosomes at this time. If something goes wrong during this time, there will be chromosomal abnormalities.

Please know that there are many things we cannot control when it comes to pregnancy loss. Even though nutrition and lifestyle play a role in limiting chromosomal abnormalities and decreasing the risk of pregnancy loss, this does NOT mean that YOU did something wrong during these 3-4 months. The glass of wine or the donut that you had did not cause your miscarriage.

Supporting egg quality with diet and lifestyle can help reduce miscarriage, but it can’t prevent it. We can only do the best we can with the information we have. There is no sense in blaming yourself for what you didn’t know before your loss. There is still so much we don’t know, and so much is out of our control.

When is it safe to get pregnant again?

It is common to wonder whether it is safe to conceive after a loss or if you are at increased risk of another loss. First, it is important to talk to your healthcare provider and consider when you are emotionally ready. Research shows that conceiving within 3 months of an early pregnancy loss (within the first 12 weeks of pregnancy) is associated with a decreased risk of another miscarriage. However, this can depend on what contributed to the first loss.

Conceiving within 7 months of a miscarriage is linked to increased anxiety during the subsequent pregnancy.

If you suffered a miscarriage during the second trimester (13-19 weeks gestation), research shows you may benefit from waiting 9-12 months before trying to conceive again. Conceiving within 3 months after a loss in the second trimester is associated with an increased chance of recurrent pregnancy loss. [7-10]

Conceive after Loss: Where should you start when you’re ready to conceive again?

There is no one-size-fits-all approach for this. Working with an expert in this field to conduct necessary testing and guide you based on your unique situation will provide you with the best outcomes. There will always be things out of our control when it comes to pregnancy loss. Focusing on the things we can control can help you move forward while improving egg quality and decreasing the risk of another loss.

When you feel ready, start focusing on the things that you can control.

Where to start:

Nutrition. Nutrients will help your body heal while supporting egg quality for future conception. Focus on nutrient-dense foods like animal protein, fish and seafood, and various fruits, vegetables, nuts, and seeds.

Movement. Moving your body in a way that feels good to you decreases stress, supports healthy hormone balance and regular ovulation.

Sleep. Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep each night. Sleep is a time for our body to rest and repair, which is crucial for supporting egg quality and hormone balance.

Stress management. Seeking support can help you manage what you are going through. Grief counseling can help you process the emotions. Lean on others that have experienced pregnancy loss, whether they are friends, family members, or online support groups.

Be gentle with yourself and lean on your loved ones. Your spouse may grieve differently than you do, and that’s okay too. When you are both emotionally and physically ready to try to conceive again, don’t hesitate to find the support you need.

1. Negro R, Schwartz A, Gismondi R, Tinelli A, Mangieri T, Stagnaro-Green A. Increased pregnancy loss rate in thyroid antibody negative women with TSH levels between 2.5 and 5.0 in the first trimester of pregnancy. J Clin Endocrinol Metabol. 2010;95:E44–E48.
2. Twig G, Shina A, Amital H, Shoenfeld Y. Pathogenesis of infertility and recurrent pregnancy loss in thyroid autoimmunity. J Autoimmun. 2012;38:J275–J281.
3. Robertson L, Wu O, Langhorne P, Twaddle S, Clark P, Lowe GD, Walker ID, Greaves M, Brenkel I, Regan L, Greer IA. Thrombophilia in pregnancy: a systematic review. Br J Haematol. 2006;132:171–196.
4. Oakeshott P, Hay P, Hay S, Steinke F, Rink E, Kerry S. Association between bacterial vaginosis or chlamydial infection and miscarriage before 16 weeks’ gestation: prospective community-based cohort study. BMJ. 2002 Dec 7;325(7376):1334. doi: 10.1136/bmj.325.7376.1334. PMID: 12468483; PMCID: PMC137811.
5. Olson-Chen C, Balaram K, Hackney DN. Chlamydia trachomatis and Adverse Pregnancy Outcomes: Meta-analysis of Patients With and Without Infection. Matern Child Health J. 2018 Jun;22(6):812-821. doi: 10.1007/s10995-018-2451-z. PMID: 29417367.
6. Andersen AM, Andersen PK, Olsen J, Gronbaek M, Strandberg-Larsen K. Moderate alcohol intake during pregnancy and risk of fetal death. Int J Epidemiol. 2012;41:405–413
7. Practice Committee of the American Society for Reproductive Medicine. Evaluation and treatment of recurrent pregnancy loss: a committee opinion. Fertil Steril. 2012;98:1103–1111.
8. Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists SAC. Guideline No. 17. The investigation and treatment of couples with first and second trimester recurrent miscarriage. London, UK: Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists; 2011. pp. 1–18.
9. Sundermann AC, Hartmann KE, Jones SH, Torstenson ES, Velez Edwards DR. Interpregnancy Interval After Pregnancy Loss and Risk of Repeat Miscarriage. Obstet Gynecol. 2017 Dec;130(6):1312-1318. doi: 10.1097/AOG.0000000000002318. PMID: 29112656; PMCID: PMC5709156.
10. Roberts CL, Algert CS, Ford JB, et al. Association between interpregnancy interval and the risk of recurrent loss after a mid-trimester loss. Hum Reprod. 2016;31:2834-2840.
Was this article helpful?
  • Author
Brooke Boskovich Fertility Dietician MS, RD, LDN
  • Website
  • Social
  • Social
  • Social

Brooke Boskovich is a Registered Dietitian Nutritionist, a functional & integrative practitioner, the founder of The Fertility Dietitian, and the creator of the Master Your Fertility & Foundations for Optimizing… Read more

Why Life Insurance Doesn’t Have to Be Scary or Confusing

Woman consoling friend at home

How to Support a Grieving Mother on Mother’s Day

Sweet curly girl and jack russell dog is sleeping in night.

How to Talk to Your Child About a Pet Dying

Happy mother walking with little daughter outdoors in summer. The mother and kid walk in the field back to camera. Happy childhood (family) and Mother's Day concept.

Confessions of a Widowed Mom

Condolence and support concept. Caring woman hugging her crying black girlfriend, comforting her after receiving bad news

10 Things Never to Say to a Bereaved Parent

Thoughtful and sad woman at home looking out the window.

How to Help a Mom Who Has Experienced Loss