Creating the Ultimate Parent-Child Relationship With Dr. Shefali – Podcast Ep 109
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Creating the Ultimate Parent-Child Relationship With Dr. Shefali – Podcast Ep 109

Published May 30, 2023

by Nina Spears

The Baby Chick®: Pregnancy, Birth & Postpartum Expert | Birth & Postpartum Doula & Childbirth Educator
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Did you know that our past experiences can affect how we parent in the present? It seems quite obvious, but there are so many layers to this. I’ve learned a lot about this from Dr. Shefali Tsabary, and today, we have the privilege of having her with us on our show.

Who Is Dr. Shefali?

Dr. Shefali received her doctorate in clinical psychology from Columbia University. Specializing in the integration of Western psychology and Eastern philosophy, she brings together the best of both worlds for her clients. She is an expert in family dynamics and personal development, teaching courses around the world. She has written four books, three of which are New York Times bestsellers, including her two landmark books, The Conscious Parent and The Awakened Family.

Today, Dr. Shefali is chatting with us about creating the ultimate parent-child relationship. We explore some practical solutions that can allow parents to connect with their children authentically, and she shares some powerful tips from her latest book, The Parenting Map.

Related: 12 Tips to Build a Healthy Parent-Child Relationship

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Nina is The Baby Chick® and the Founder and CEO of Baby Chick®. She received her baby planning certification in early 2011 and began attending births that same year. Since then, Nina has received her birth doula and postpartum doula certifications from DONA International, her childbirth educator certification from ICEA, her Hynobabies Hypno-Doula certification, and her infant massage instructor certification from Loving Touch, among other certifications. Nina has used her knowledge and expertise to teach and support families during their pregnancies, at their births, and throughout their postpartum journeys for over 14 years.

Early in her career, Nina acquired her nickname from one of her birth doula clients, who lovingly referred to her as “The Baby Chick.” The “chick” who…

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